"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"no cell i got drunk and drop it"

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Well, I'm just starting with this whole DJ thing. I read several books by DeAngelo just this past weekend and I already went from chasing one girl to being chased by three, over the net, myspace...

There is this one chick, she's real hot, stripper, working her ass off daddy's sick. She's really into me, and I really got her attention with this thing. So today I went on to ask her number, just to turn the things up a notch. I get this response: "no cell i got drunk and drop it". Basically I've tried everything and she won't give it to me, and more I ask the less attention she gave me (I asked like 3 times, making jokes each time). Then she pretended she had a friend over (male friend). I told her that I don't care, it's non of my business, and that I'm not falling for it, them I made an insulting joke on her page, told her she should ask BOTH guys to use protection and put a drama lamma picture up.... So that's where I'm at.

Question is: what do I do now? Do I wait for response, or do I email her tomorrow. She loves to screw with people, and I really turn it around after I read double your dating, but she has some tricks up her sleeves I guess.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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unorthodox said:
Basically I've tried everything and she won't give it to me...
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Sounds like game over to me, sorry.

Besides what are you doing trying to date a stripper?
 
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You're done dude, next.

Strippers are friendly. Don't mistake interest for her trying to get business off you.

Look for some more tail dude.
 
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She's only been doing it several month, before that married 5 years. She's hot, so why not. Her father has cancer...... Thing is, of all the men on there, I am #1 on her page. How good of a chance is it that she's just playing me?
 
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I should say she was a waitress for half a year, and only now she started giving lap dances. OR something like that. No poll dancing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright. I actually have no problem with that right now. A week ago I'd be whipping like a wuss. hahahaha Thanks for the advice.
 
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