I've recently found this site and I am taking necessary steps to become more successful with women. I'm a senior but I can't drive (insurance is too expensive at the moment.) Will I become any less alpha if I find a girl who can drive and have her handle all the driving? To top it off, because of my family situation it would be a bad idea to have any women over my house. I'll be going to college in the fall so its not like i'm looking for a serious relationship, but i still want to have fun. Does anyone have any ideas or can offer any insight on what I can do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No Car
- Thread starter Herzeleid
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
So you don't have a car, and girl at house a big no-no, so what? Make the best of the situation.
assassin
Don Juan
i feel u there man. i have a car but it's a piece of ****. my insurance is hella expensive and i have to keep fixing that piece..
don't let u hold u down though man. just get out. even if you have to walk. get out.
make friends with everyone. get invited to parties. get a ride to them.
you said your looking for a short term relationship. parties are great for that man. thats what i did.
don't let u hold u down though man. just get out. even if you have to walk. get out.
make friends with everyone. get invited to parties. get a ride to them.
you said your looking for a short term relationship. parties are great for that man. thats what i did.
I'm not old enough to drive so I just let Claire drive me everywhere. It is alpha because its like having a chaufer. "Drive me to the cinema *****
" "Did you just call me a *****?" "Im sorry please forgive me don't beat me up". Ok maybe Im not quite alpha yet .
" "Did you just call me a *****?" "Im sorry please forgive me don't beat me up". Ok maybe Im not quite alpha yet .wavejams007
Master Don Juan
It is kinda like having a chaufer, but be courtious to her.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.