I've recently found this site and I am taking necessary steps to become more successful with women. I'm a senior but I can't drive (insurance is too expensive at the moment.) Will I become any less alpha if I find a girl who can drive and have her handle all the driving? To top it off, because of my family situation it would be a bad idea to have any women over my house. I'll be going to college in the fall so its not like i'm looking for a serious relationship, but i still want to have fun. Does anyone have any ideas or can offer any insight on what I can do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No Car
- Thread starter Herzeleid
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
So you don't have a car, and girl at house a big no-no, so what? Make the best of the situation.
assassin
Don Juan
i feel u there man. i have a car but it's a piece of ****. my insurance is hella expensive and i have to keep fixing that piece..
don't let u hold u down though man. just get out. even if you have to walk. get out.
make friends with everyone. get invited to parties. get a ride to them.
you said your looking for a short term relationship. parties are great for that man. thats what i did.
don't let u hold u down though man. just get out. even if you have to walk. get out.
make friends with everyone. get invited to parties. get a ride to them.
you said your looking for a short term relationship. parties are great for that man. thats what i did.
I'm not old enough to drive so I just let Claire drive me everywhere. It is alpha because its like having a chaufer. "Drive me to the cinema *****
" "Did you just call me a *****?" "Im sorry please forgive me don't beat me up". Ok maybe Im not quite alpha yet .
" "Did you just call me a *****?" "Im sorry please forgive me don't beat me up". Ok maybe Im not quite alpha yet .wavejams007
Master Don Juan
It is kinda like having a chaufer, but be courtious to her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.