"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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no car....

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Iv come here to work on my LTR and dating skills. I'm learning slowly! Always been good at ONS FWB but I can never keep them around or I turn into there beta toy:cuss: .... You guys are definitely helping me figure out why. This site is probably the best thing that ever happened to me.


With that out of the way what the hell am I suppose to do about having no car and I'm back at Moms till I move?! Except move to a city. I royally messed my life up and my dad is moving me to NYC were he lives in the next 1-2 years but I need to practice in the mean time.

I know this really screws me up. Ideas? I ride a road bike 50+ miles a day so I can get places fairly quickly. Nothing's more than 10 miles in my town. I'm not a bum I make good money.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Welcome to our forums, Sir. For me I am a Midwest redneck who lives on a road where you not only need a car you need 4-wheel drive to get out of here some winter days. But in NYC, you may be in luck, you may not even need a car. I think I heard where like 70% of NYC people don't even have one. Our NYC folks on here may be able to provide you more on that.

I see nothing wrong with living with mom and dad temporarily until you can get on your feet. We have guys on here posting about that periodically. We all make mistakes and need to do things to get back on our feet. Just don't be coming back to us in say 2-3 years and say you are "stuck there".
 
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no reason not to have a car if u make good money. used cars can be bought for cheap bro. if sum dude in college can afford car payments then so can u makin good money. cars r essential for dating and for ur well being.
 
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I have no car either, puts more power in the womens hand. I driven before, never on the highway, over the years I developed a driving highway phobia.....smh
 
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No license might I add.... There has to be a way!:mad:

Thanks for all the feedback and support so far!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PeasantPlayer said:
I have no car either, puts more power in the womens hand. I driven before, never on the highway, over the years I developed a driving highway phobia.....smh
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Yes I definitely see that and has been a problem I have realized after coming here...

How do you get around this without giving the women more power/control?
 
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