"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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no car....

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Iv come here to work on my LTR and dating skills. I'm learning slowly! Always been good at ONS FWB but I can never keep them around or I turn into there beta toy:cuss: .... You guys are definitely helping me figure out why. This site is probably the best thing that ever happened to me.


With that out of the way what the hell am I suppose to do about having no car and I'm back at Moms till I move?! Except move to a city. I royally messed my life up and my dad is moving me to NYC were he lives in the next 1-2 years but I need to practice in the mean time.

I know this really screws me up. Ideas? I ride a road bike 50+ miles a day so I can get places fairly quickly. Nothing's more than 10 miles in my town. I'm not a bum I make good money.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Welcome to our forums, Sir. For me I am a Midwest redneck who lives on a road where you not only need a car you need 4-wheel drive to get out of here some winter days. But in NYC, you may be in luck, you may not even need a car. I think I heard where like 70% of NYC people don't even have one. Our NYC folks on here may be able to provide you more on that.

I see nothing wrong with living with mom and dad temporarily until you can get on your feet. We have guys on here posting about that periodically. We all make mistakes and need to do things to get back on our feet. Just don't be coming back to us in say 2-3 years and say you are "stuck there".
 
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no reason not to have a car if u make good money. used cars can be bought for cheap bro. if sum dude in college can afford car payments then so can u makin good money. cars r essential for dating and for ur well being.
 
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I have no car either, puts more power in the womens hand. I driven before, never on the highway, over the years I developed a driving highway phobia.....smh
 
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No license might I add.... There has to be a way!:mad:

Thanks for all the feedback and support so far!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PeasantPlayer said:
I have no car either, puts more power in the womens hand. I driven before, never on the highway, over the years I developed a driving highway phobia.....smh
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Yes I definitely see that and has been a problem I have realized after coming here...

How do you get around this without giving the women more power/control?
 
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