"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No car No date?

zerolx255

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Well see, I don't have a car to take girls on dates, and I couldn't ask my parents to drive us. So like do any of you have good idea's for dates where you wouldn't need a car?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mrsoy

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a bedroom

or take a walk or something or chill and watch tv..life is good with a car though
 

Fabio

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Your 15 she'll understand that you dont have yer license yet and wont care just get yer parents to drop you off places and stuff or go anywhere within walking distance.

When i was 15 my GF would get her parents or i would get mine to drop us off somewhere and pick us up it wa a big deal she dint care she just wanted to be with me and who can blame her :D .
 

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Your 15 she'll understand that you dont have yer license yet and wont care just get yer parents to drop you off places and stuff or go anywhere within walking distance.
I agree with this. If you are only 15, chances are you wont have a car. When you ask your parents to give you a ride, tell them that you want to be alone, and ask them not to chaperone you because you are not a little kid anymore.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nath

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older cousins? friends?

oh and ive taken out chicks on 'dates' ..we took the bus..sub

not having a car is no REAL excuse :)
keep tryin :)
 

Ace of Spades

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It'll be tough without a car. It's feasible, but tough.

I mean, before I moved to the US, I lived in Germany, and nobody had a damn car so we had to use public trasportation, and we did just fine.

I personally think it'd be kinda embarassing having your mommy driving you around and dropping you off.
 
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