"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No booze 4 me

Solomon

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Hey guys, I've been peeping a lot of different sites on working out, eating right etc.
a couple years ago when I first started my journey in game I noticed my drinking went up exponentially. This wasn't surprising considering that I spend 2-3 days a week at bars. However after a car accident (yes I was drunk) It was a wake up call. I went on a 40/40 (days&nights) no booze. etc

I decided since I'm working out no to lose weight for the month of September not to drink any booze what so ever and see what the results would be. October is homecoming at my buddies school so Ill break it then and resume after depending on my results :)

thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Borknagar

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That's gonna be hard man especially on the weekends, but I support ya all the way bro.

I thought about it myself, but all in all when it comes to getting in shape and booze it all depends on the person. I drink and eat like **** during the weekends, but during the week, I do well. like under 2000 calories, and my weights at the gym are increasing and I lost about 25 pounds since may.

And when I was in school I got lazy, and ate bad food, so gained about 25. So now I'm back where I was at. I'll admit I am lucky though.
 

FairShake

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The most accomplished and interesting people I've ever met tended to be teetotalers or damn close to it. Not that I don't drink a little but just something I noticed.
 

Tortendieb

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FairShake said:
The most accomplished and interesting people I've ever met tended to be teetotalers or damn close to it. Not that I don't drink a little but just something I noticed.
I knew some people that didn't drink and I respected them highly for it. Funnily enough, they all have started drinking recently.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zodiac

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Social_Leper said:
I meant to say that alcohol has been proven to lower testosterone levels and increase the body's production of estrogen.
That makes a bit more sense to me. Explains why heavy drinkers have a bit of the man ti****s.
 
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