"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No booze 4 me

Solomon

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Hey guys, I've been peeping a lot of different sites on working out, eating right etc.
a couple years ago when I first started my journey in game I noticed my drinking went up exponentially. This wasn't surprising considering that I spend 2-3 days a week at bars. However after a car accident (yes I was drunk) It was a wake up call. I went on a 40/40 (days&nights) no booze. etc

I decided since I'm working out no to lose weight for the month of September not to drink any booze what so ever and see what the results would be. October is homecoming at my buddies school so Ill break it then and resume after depending on my results :)

thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Borknagar

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That's gonna be hard man especially on the weekends, but I support ya all the way bro.

I thought about it myself, but all in all when it comes to getting in shape and booze it all depends on the person. I drink and eat like **** during the weekends, but during the week, I do well. like under 2000 calories, and my weights at the gym are increasing and I lost about 25 pounds since may.

And when I was in school I got lazy, and ate bad food, so gained about 25. So now I'm back where I was at. I'll admit I am lucky though.
 

FairShake

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The most accomplished and interesting people I've ever met tended to be teetotalers or damn close to it. Not that I don't drink a little but just something I noticed.
 

Tortendieb

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FairShake said:
The most accomplished and interesting people I've ever met tended to be teetotalers or damn close to it. Not that I don't drink a little but just something I noticed.
I knew some people that didn't drink and I respected them highly for it. Funnily enough, they all have started drinking recently.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zodiac

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Social_Leper said:
I meant to say that alcohol has been proven to lower testosterone levels and increase the body's production of estrogen.
That makes a bit more sense to me. Explains why heavy drinkers have a bit of the man ti****s.
 
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