"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NLP, does this work for women? Anybody know any information on how to apply it, I dont really want to go out and buy any books on it, I just would like somebody to give me some info on it, I know somebody here knows some info. on it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NLP is not worth it. If you're going to spend money on a 'system' then Mystery Method or David Deangelo is the way to go.

Anybody promising that their hypnotic lines will make you a sex magnet is lying.
 

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Understand that asking if NLP is works for getting women is like asking if biology is good for winning a football game.

NLP is a science (or pseudo-science) in the area of human interaction. Also, one of the understandings of NLP is that people can sense when they are being manipulated (at least to a certain).

The first theing that you'll learn in any NLP book is "The map is not the territory." Meaning that the map that you create of reality is not reality, it's just a map to help you deal with reality and to know what things mean to you.

NLP has helped me to improve my mindset, which in turn helped me get more women... but I didn't USE NLP to get women... and although others will claim otherwise, I don't see how it could have a direct impact on getting women.
 

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I am more concerned with using it for sales, i am in sales, and I have trouble connecting with clients, I did some research on a guy named, Nicholas Boothman, and he talked about how to connect with people in 90 seconds, and also wrote a book on how to connect in business in 90 seconds, so that is what I would mainly want it for...and it might work with women as well, as i STILL dont have a girlfriend yet, and I really do want one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
i STILL dont have a girlfriend yet, and I really do want one.
You need to shake this mindset before you do anything else mate.

'Wanting' is the root of all suffering. It also harms your game. Women are very perceptive creatures and will smell your intentions from a mile away - you know the rest.

Apart from anything, the reality of girlfriends is fraught with headaches. Picking one at random will likely land you with a complete bunny boiler/attention wh*re/vampire.

You make a girl your girlfriend because she passes all of your tests and continues to do so after you take her on (think of yourself as an employer), not because you "really want one".

That's my philosophy for what it's worth.
 

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if you are going to spend money on a system, spend it on a gym card.
 
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