"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NLP, does this work for women? Anybody know any information on how to apply it, I dont really want to go out and buy any books on it, I just would like somebody to give me some info on it, I know somebody here knows some info. on it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NLP is not worth it. If you're going to spend money on a 'system' then Mystery Method or David Deangelo is the way to go.

Anybody promising that their hypnotic lines will make you a sex magnet is lying.
 

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Understand that asking if NLP is works for getting women is like asking if biology is good for winning a football game.

NLP is a science (or pseudo-science) in the area of human interaction. Also, one of the understandings of NLP is that people can sense when they are being manipulated (at least to a certain).

The first theing that you'll learn in any NLP book is "The map is not the territory." Meaning that the map that you create of reality is not reality, it's just a map to help you deal with reality and to know what things mean to you.

NLP has helped me to improve my mindset, which in turn helped me get more women... but I didn't USE NLP to get women... and although others will claim otherwise, I don't see how it could have a direct impact on getting women.
 

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I am more concerned with using it for sales, i am in sales, and I have trouble connecting with clients, I did some research on a guy named, Nicholas Boothman, and he talked about how to connect with people in 90 seconds, and also wrote a book on how to connect in business in 90 seconds, so that is what I would mainly want it for...and it might work with women as well, as i STILL dont have a girlfriend yet, and I really do want one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
i STILL dont have a girlfriend yet, and I really do want one.
You need to shake this mindset before you do anything else mate.

'Wanting' is the root of all suffering. It also harms your game. Women are very perceptive creatures and will smell your intentions from a mile away - you know the rest.

Apart from anything, the reality of girlfriends is fraught with headaches. Picking one at random will likely land you with a complete bunny boiler/attention wh*re/vampire.

You make a girl your girlfriend because she passes all of your tests and continues to do so after you take her on (think of yourself as an employer), not because you "really want one".

That's my philosophy for what it's worth.
 

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if you are going to spend money on a system, spend it on a gym card.
 
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