Nitpicking, maybe

[Leporello]

Right. So I meet a girl for our second date. She can't stay long (her parents are rather protective) so we can't do much, but the time flies by and soon she has to leave.

As we say goodbye, she gives me a hug. I say "Is that all you want to give me?" and, very quietly, she says "I don't know." But then, I honestly cannto tell if she leaned in to kiss me or I leaned in to kiss her. Either way, we kissed twice, and then she left.

Am I just worrying over nothing here, and she was just being shy? Maybe I'm expecting too much.

 

[JSH]

What did you want out of this goodbye, anyway always try to initiate kisses as otherwise you get stuck, especially with certain types of gal, who never inititate.

 

[blienk]

I wouldn't worry about it...see what happens on your second date, assuming there is one.

 

[fezz]

I dont know if she was just being shy becasue Im not sure who she is and what she is like. But next time after you hug, just kiss her. Dont ask her if thats all you're gonna get if you just get a hug. that puts the women in control

 

[Luscious]

You did fine . Stop worrying and overanalyzing.

As a rule of thumb you shouldn't judge how 'well' you did from HER response - how did it make YOU feel? If it makes you happy, then you're doing fine.