"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
Why?
I shout out to my friends always. Leave it on my answering machine exactly what I'm going to be doing that night. If I can that open with what other people do, imagine what I am keeping secret
Why should we not publish the names of places we're going to be?
Rockstars do it.... blah blah blah "playing at the blah stadium" Coming March 1st, be there!
I think Sutra means don't post the places you went on a public forum! If someone should happen by that happened to notice you at a certain bar, or perhaps you had GAMED them...it wouldn't be hard to put 1+1 together. Just safer IMO. Of course I shout out to my friends where I'm going to be.Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Why?
I shout out to my friends always. Leave it on my answering machine exactly what I'm going to be doing that night. If I can that open with what other people do, imagine what I am keeping secret
Why should we not publish the names of places we're going to be?
Rockstars do it.... blah blah blah "playing at the blah stadium" Coming March 1st, be there!
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.