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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nino-Tk's Journal of Women
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Haha thanks my fellow dons!
Well, I kinda dreaded Monday, well not really but then again...so at least the principal wasn't pissed, hell he even marveled at our insistence to make this thing work at all costs, a huge sigh of relief there.
Things were, a bit awkward around all of us to be honest, less eye-contact and hasty conversations indicated this. But it was for a minority, the one I was concerned with was Pumi, who like I mentioned above, was/is a friend and according to what I was asked today by almost everyone I talked to was " Are you going out with Pumi?" Man they were so awkward as hell but I managed a poker face and just said " What happened on Friday, gotta stay there"
She kinda avoided me the whole day, and she has just hit me on Facebook right now, telling me that she got dumped by her BF of a year and 3 months I Think...I don't know how to reply, f*ck me I'm feeling a slight tinge of regret about the whole thing that happened with her on Friday.
I hope by the end of this week, things can be cool again.
Later PlayerZ
Well, I kinda dreaded Monday, well not really but then again...so at least the principal wasn't pissed, hell he even marveled at our insistence to make this thing work at all costs, a huge sigh of relief there.
Things were, a bit awkward around all of us to be honest, less eye-contact and hasty conversations indicated this. But it was for a minority, the one I was concerned with was Pumi, who like I mentioned above, was/is a friend and according to what I was asked today by almost everyone I talked to was " Are you going out with Pumi?" Man they were so awkward as hell but I managed a poker face and just said " What happened on Friday, gotta stay there"
She kinda avoided me the whole day, and she has just hit me on Facebook right now, telling me that she got dumped by her BF of a year and 3 months I Think...I don't know how to reply, f*ck me I'm feeling a slight tinge of regret about the whole thing that happened with her on Friday.
I hope by the end of this week, things can be cool again.
Later PlayerZ
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Aye my players.
It is has been a minute, I'm glad my preliminary exams are done, will be writing my finals after a couple of weeks though, awaiting my results now.
Anyway, let me just say, I'm on a roll now, been on one for like two weeks now...high consistency as well. I approached most probably the most beautiful girl I've ever approached, yall know I don't number rate women, so just know that she is sooo beautiful! After a couple of days, she became my gf, her name is Palesa.
Erm, two of my exes have started coming back into my life, Eyez( remember her?) And another one from way way back! Tomorrow is cultural day at school and Eyez' sister told me straight up that she wants to get me drunk and take advantage of me. I aint going to school tomorrow though so, fok it.
I was supposed to get head from this girl at school yesterday, but she got into a fight and well, yaaa...I left it at that.
Okay so since this is my milestone post, 500! Yay!!! I just want to write this as a future reference for me because I feel totally at ease right now and I don't want to forget this.
So let's start from the beginning of my new-found epiphany. I read an article that was talking about being attached to outcomes and how that can actually destroy your game. It is true, often, you always have something that you are desperately trying to become, an image in your head. You know, "I wana be mo-*****es", "I wana get more girls", " I want better game"...always wanting, chasing, dreaming. Never there.
Being attached to the outcome made me put unnecessary pressure on myself to perform, but being free from them is the greatest feeling ever. I noticed that I was still somewhat half-assing my way through all this, you know. It is like I'm always testing the waters, making sure its safe, playing by the rules. And that has affected my game. I would still feel a tinge of embarrassment after a rejection, not a lot but still, it kinda threw me off.
So, I changed my beliefs the other night, two weeks back and I've never been....so, I don't know how to describe it, but I'm in touch with my inner now. My actions are congruent and I've stopped trying so much. Here are a couple of things I believe now.
THE MIND IS POWERFUL!
Really, I cannot make that any bolder to make you realize that, the thing between your ears is magic. I started to believe literally that every girl is a nymphomaniac that just wants a piece of me, slowly but surely, perception turned to reality.
No, not every girl wants a piece of me, but damn...girls are just there for the taking now that I believe I'm a chick magnet.
Probably a placebo effect because it has been over 40 days or 50 without MB and P and I'm just exuding pure, raw sexually energy.
I keep eye-contact, and not just dumb ol, half-assed eye-contact I stare till they look down. I speak louder, not that I'm trying to, but I'm just speaking louder and without care what no one thinks. I do whatever it is I want to do without thinking what people will think of me. It is so elevating.
So, stop trying, confidence is not trying, it is being. I like poetry and computer games and I speak about them and women and guys find it cool because I like it! So, believe that whatever you do is cool, whatever you say is cool! And soon, the world kinda reacts to you. You stop trying to impress, you get outta your head and just do what you want to do.
BODY LANGUAGE IS BOSS!
Like, I seriously didn't think much of this, but I watched the movie "Rise of the planet of the apes" and I'd like you guys to look at Caeser's body language, they don't talk but you notice instantly that he is the leader. Chest puffed out, arms out wide, perfect posture. Now, I'm not saying imitate him exactly, that would rather be comic. But, be firm, don't slouch and always try to look relaxed in everything you do, be graceful and elegant in your movement. Haha, I guess I'm saying, elevate your body language to an art form. There was this girl who, after writing our exams, I just firmly held her waist with one hand and caressed her face with the other and I said " you look beautiful", she melted, was putty in my hands. And till today, she greets me with a glistening smile. When I hug girls these days, I squeeze them, throw em up in the air and make em feel like kids again. It is just amazing what that does.
Another thing, eye-contact, man...a thousand words can be conveyed with one passionate and soulful piece of eye-contact.
Be a good reader of one too, just yesterday, I see two hot, stunning mamasitas and I'm thinkin "Threesome"! So I get there, introduce myself but quickly realized that I was coming in between a moment. So I reserved my desires and kinda asked them what was going on, I was bored with my friends so I decided to play Dr Phil. One of em was pregnant and contemplating abortion, ish got real. I stayed calm, and without being attached to the situation I gave her advice and soon enough, I lifted their mood and we started talking bout sex, they were so open, so, "bare it all". One said to me " it is a pity we can't have a threesome, because of this pregnant one! Haha! But we can." I wasn't even shocked, I said within time we will get our chance.
So, learn to pick up on vibes and swim in the river with total confidence.
So to wrap up this one up, stop trying. You already are a Don Juan. Stop trying to get girls, they are already yours. You just do, confidence is not thinking. Learn to use your instincts, leave porn, leave masturbation and be in touch with your sexual beast. Embrace that damn beast!
It is has been a minute, I'm glad my preliminary exams are done, will be writing my finals after a couple of weeks though, awaiting my results now.
Anyway, let me just say, I'm on a roll now, been on one for like two weeks now...high consistency as well. I approached most probably the most beautiful girl I've ever approached, yall know I don't number rate women, so just know that she is sooo beautiful! After a couple of days, she became my gf, her name is Palesa.
Erm, two of my exes have started coming back into my life, Eyez( remember her?) And another one from way way back! Tomorrow is cultural day at school and Eyez' sister told me straight up that she wants to get me drunk and take advantage of me. I aint going to school tomorrow though so, fok it.
I was supposed to get head from this girl at school yesterday, but she got into a fight and well, yaaa...I left it at that.
Okay so since this is my milestone post, 500! Yay!!! I just want to write this as a future reference for me because I feel totally at ease right now and I don't want to forget this.
So let's start from the beginning of my new-found epiphany. I read an article that was talking about being attached to outcomes and how that can actually destroy your game. It is true, often, you always have something that you are desperately trying to become, an image in your head. You know, "I wana be mo-*****es", "I wana get more girls", " I want better game"...always wanting, chasing, dreaming. Never there.
Being attached to the outcome made me put unnecessary pressure on myself to perform, but being free from them is the greatest feeling ever. I noticed that I was still somewhat half-assing my way through all this, you know. It is like I'm always testing the waters, making sure its safe, playing by the rules. And that has affected my game. I would still feel a tinge of embarrassment after a rejection, not a lot but still, it kinda threw me off.
So, I changed my beliefs the other night, two weeks back and I've never been....so, I don't know how to describe it, but I'm in touch with my inner now. My actions are congruent and I've stopped trying so much. Here are a couple of things I believe now.
THE MIND IS POWERFUL!
Really, I cannot make that any bolder to make you realize that, the thing between your ears is magic. I started to believe literally that every girl is a nymphomaniac that just wants a piece of me, slowly but surely, perception turned to reality.
No, not every girl wants a piece of me, but damn...girls are just there for the taking now that I believe I'm a chick magnet.
Probably a placebo effect because it has been over 40 days or 50 without MB and P and I'm just exuding pure, raw sexually energy.
I keep eye-contact, and not just dumb ol, half-assed eye-contact I stare till they look down. I speak louder, not that I'm trying to, but I'm just speaking louder and without care what no one thinks. I do whatever it is I want to do without thinking what people will think of me. It is so elevating.
So, stop trying, confidence is not trying, it is being. I like poetry and computer games and I speak about them and women and guys find it cool because I like it! So, believe that whatever you do is cool, whatever you say is cool! And soon, the world kinda reacts to you. You stop trying to impress, you get outta your head and just do what you want to do.
BODY LANGUAGE IS BOSS!
Like, I seriously didn't think much of this, but I watched the movie "Rise of the planet of the apes" and I'd like you guys to look at Caeser's body language, they don't talk but you notice instantly that he is the leader. Chest puffed out, arms out wide, perfect posture. Now, I'm not saying imitate him exactly, that would rather be comic. But, be firm, don't slouch and always try to look relaxed in everything you do, be graceful and elegant in your movement. Haha, I guess I'm saying, elevate your body language to an art form. There was this girl who, after writing our exams, I just firmly held her waist with one hand and caressed her face with the other and I said " you look beautiful", she melted, was putty in my hands. And till today, she greets me with a glistening smile. When I hug girls these days, I squeeze them, throw em up in the air and make em feel like kids again. It is just amazing what that does.
Another thing, eye-contact, man...a thousand words can be conveyed with one passionate and soulful piece of eye-contact.
Be a good reader of one too, just yesterday, I see two hot, stunning mamasitas and I'm thinkin "Threesome"! So I get there, introduce myself but quickly realized that I was coming in between a moment. So I reserved my desires and kinda asked them what was going on, I was bored with my friends so I decided to play Dr Phil. One of em was pregnant and contemplating abortion, ish got real. I stayed calm, and without being attached to the situation I gave her advice and soon enough, I lifted their mood and we started talking bout sex, they were so open, so, "bare it all". One said to me " it is a pity we can't have a threesome, because of this pregnant one! Haha! But we can." I wasn't even shocked, I said within time we will get our chance.
So, learn to pick up on vibes and swim in the river with total confidence.
So to wrap up this one up, stop trying. You already are a Don Juan. Stop trying to get girls, they are already yours. You just do, confidence is not thinking. Learn to use your instincts, leave porn, leave masturbation and be in touch with your sexual beast. Embrace that damn beast!
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
My ninjas!
Okay so I'm gonna keep this somewhat concise and to the point.
So,ever since the now legendary "Trash Day", my crew's rep has increased, new friends all over school and all that. A group named "Sweet Harmony" consisting of some party-animal girls and two gay dudes told me to invite my friends to zoo lake today. So, I told my boys, and we all met up at some taxi rank and took out money and all that.
Then...as we are going there, I manage to organize us a taxi that will drop us directly there, I even get the drivers digits so I can call him to come fetch us at about 7. Now, as we are going there, I notice vast amounts of gays lesbians...then it hit me, we are going to The Gay Pride! I was so shocked...it got me out of my rhythm but my friends were cool so I calmed down. I couldn't believe Sweet Harmony didn't at least let us know what was going down.
So we get off, and I realize that approaching is going to be something else here, you see a chick, a fine chick, kissing another mean-looking chick. I really couldn't tell which were straight and which were not. After a couple of drinks of Smirnoff Vodka and two blunts of weed, the world just became flippen hazy!
One thing I know, my friends always look up to me to open girls, always...once I do, then they flow like hell. We decide to leave the girls we came with and just scope the talent in this place, it was really massive, people everywhere. But, I just wasn't feeling it for some reason. Every time I tried to greet one of em, they would just give a hasty greeting and off they go. My boys kept pumping me up, saying if I wasn't "striking" then they feel weak.
I really don't know what went wrong, I just lost my form completely! And what made it worse is, I was supposed to meet a solid...solid dime! But the network coverage in that park was awful, we kept on losing each other and all that. So that threw me off too.
I decided to call the hunting trip quits, just couldn't mack to save my life. I returned to the girls we came with, we took pics and all that, then my day just got messed up even further, remember Pumi? The friend I kissed from trash day? Well, she came...drank, and took me some place in the trees to tell me how much she liked me and wants to leave her bf for me.
I told her that she knows what type of guy I am, I mean I nearly screwed her best friend last year so she knows me very well. She kept on telling me how much she would change me and all that, I'm drunk, I'm high and for some reason, what she was saying was really making me feel awkward. I held her head roughly, slammed her to a tree and kissed like John Proctor in "The Crucible". I just wanted to shut her up, but that didn't help. I called the taxi driver to take us to a taxi rank and the whole damn way, I had to listen to Pumi, I wasn't even acknowledging her, just blasted The Weeknd with earphones on.
Got home, slept and woke now, its 2 AM by the way.
I noticed I've encountered yet another sticking point that I could use some advice on. At school, in the streets, buses, taxis and local supermarkets I can approach like a machine. When it comes to places party-like scenes, I just can't. Anything that involves a place where there will be loads of people and loud music, I just can't perform. It is so ironic, I do WAY better cold-approaching on the streets than any large scale party or club.
And no, I look cool enough because I get plenty 2nd looks and a few greetings but my beast never arises. So, anyone please offer some pointers in situations like these, I can handle a house party, that is easy. I want pointers on places where there are like thousands of people like I saw today, don't know the official numbers but some 30000 people rocked up.
Later PlayerZ, my head is spinning hella crazy!
Okay so I'm gonna keep this somewhat concise and to the point.
So,ever since the now legendary "Trash Day", my crew's rep has increased, new friends all over school and all that. A group named "Sweet Harmony" consisting of some party-animal girls and two gay dudes told me to invite my friends to zoo lake today. So, I told my boys, and we all met up at some taxi rank and took out money and all that.
Then...as we are going there, I manage to organize us a taxi that will drop us directly there, I even get the drivers digits so I can call him to come fetch us at about 7. Now, as we are going there, I notice vast amounts of gays lesbians...then it hit me, we are going to The Gay Pride! I was so shocked...it got me out of my rhythm but my friends were cool so I calmed down. I couldn't believe Sweet Harmony didn't at least let us know what was going down.
So we get off, and I realize that approaching is going to be something else here, you see a chick, a fine chick, kissing another mean-looking chick. I really couldn't tell which were straight and which were not. After a couple of drinks of Smirnoff Vodka and two blunts of weed, the world just became flippen hazy!
One thing I know, my friends always look up to me to open girls, always...once I do, then they flow like hell. We decide to leave the girls we came with and just scope the talent in this place, it was really massive, people everywhere. But, I just wasn't feeling it for some reason. Every time I tried to greet one of em, they would just give a hasty greeting and off they go. My boys kept pumping me up, saying if I wasn't "striking" then they feel weak.
I really don't know what went wrong, I just lost my form completely! And what made it worse is, I was supposed to meet a solid...solid dime! But the network coverage in that park was awful, we kept on losing each other and all that. So that threw me off too.
I decided to call the hunting trip quits, just couldn't mack to save my life. I returned to the girls we came with, we took pics and all that, then my day just got messed up even further, remember Pumi? The friend I kissed from trash day? Well, she came...drank, and took me some place in the trees to tell me how much she liked me and wants to leave her bf for me.
I told her that she knows what type of guy I am, I mean I nearly screwed her best friend last year so she knows me very well. She kept on telling me how much she would change me and all that, I'm drunk, I'm high and for some reason, what she was saying was really making me feel awkward. I held her head roughly, slammed her to a tree and kissed like John Proctor in "The Crucible". I just wanted to shut her up, but that didn't help. I called the taxi driver to take us to a taxi rank and the whole damn way, I had to listen to Pumi, I wasn't even acknowledging her, just blasted The Weeknd with earphones on.
Got home, slept and woke now, its 2 AM by the way.
I noticed I've encountered yet another sticking point that I could use some advice on. At school, in the streets, buses, taxis and local supermarkets I can approach like a machine. When it comes to places party-like scenes, I just can't. Anything that involves a place where there will be loads of people and loud music, I just can't perform. It is so ironic, I do WAY better cold-approaching on the streets than any large scale party or club.
And no, I look cool enough because I get plenty 2nd looks and a few greetings but my beast never arises. So, anyone please offer some pointers in situations like these, I can handle a house party, that is easy. I want pointers on places where there are like thousands of people like I saw today, don't know the official numbers but some 30000 people rocked up.
Later PlayerZ, my head is spinning hella crazy!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Let's go.
I had a mixed day, word is spreading among the seniors that I've been telling everyone that Pumi was throwing her self at me. Its big news, and the awkwardness is further increased by all the people that ask me what is goin on between us. We hardly spoke and she just sent me a long inbox...you know talking about this issue gets to me, let me get to the good stuff.
After getting off from the bus, I realize I left my keys and I have to wait at least 3 hours before my dad arrives. I decide to see a childhood bud that I haven't seen in a year and on my way there, I see a stunning hot dime. Got a weave on though so that was kinda...erm, right. She is a yellow bone, short and possesses a slender frame with sweet legs. I felt like taking things to another level with her so, enjoy.
Me: woah...I know I just have to know this fine lady!
Her: oh really?
Me: yeah, oh you going that way? Let me take you home.
Her: but you were going in a different direction
Me: and you changed me...damn that was cheesy as Fvck!
Her
she starts laughing)...you sound interesting.
Me: not as interesting as this Saturday will be.
Her: what is going on?
Me: you and I will be hooking up for some passion.
Her: passion!? Did you just say Passion!? You are cheesy hey, wow.
Me: that, I won't deny, but I'm offended...I think I'm much more on the mozarella side, so we on, you and I?
Her: no, no, I'm preparing for my exams at this moment.
Me: that is not forever, actually I'm also preparing for my final exams hey, okay...after exams, how's that?
Her:mmmmm
Me: look, here is my phone, gimme your digits.
Her: no, I don't really know you and all...I'm sorry.
Me: No problem, I will leave you to yourself now.
So, as I turned, I said bye in Tswana, a language in South Africa and she told me to wait, she came back and we started talking again, it was abit weird what happened haha!
next thing I know we were talking about poetry and she asked me to recite some of my pieces, I did. And she was impressed, I told her to do something and she told me she sings, and she sang beautifully. We exchanged numbers and I promised I would call her to give her my numbers.
That's about it, lights out.
Later PlayerZ
I had a mixed day, word is spreading among the seniors that I've been telling everyone that Pumi was throwing her self at me. Its big news, and the awkwardness is further increased by all the people that ask me what is goin on between us. We hardly spoke and she just sent me a long inbox...you know talking about this issue gets to me, let me get to the good stuff.
After getting off from the bus, I realize I left my keys and I have to wait at least 3 hours before my dad arrives. I decide to see a childhood bud that I haven't seen in a year and on my way there, I see a stunning hot dime. Got a weave on though so that was kinda...erm, right. She is a yellow bone, short and possesses a slender frame with sweet legs. I felt like taking things to another level with her so, enjoy.
Me: woah...I know I just have to know this fine lady!
Her: oh really?
Me: yeah, oh you going that way? Let me take you home.
Her: but you were going in a different direction
Me: and you changed me...damn that was cheesy as Fvck!
Her
she starts laughing)...you sound interesting.Me: not as interesting as this Saturday will be.
Her: what is going on?
Me: you and I will be hooking up for some passion.
Her: passion!? Did you just say Passion!? You are cheesy hey, wow.
Me: that, I won't deny, but I'm offended...I think I'm much more on the mozarella side, so we on, you and I?
Her: no, no, I'm preparing for my exams at this moment.
Me: that is not forever, actually I'm also preparing for my final exams hey, okay...after exams, how's that?
Her:mmmmm
Me: look, here is my phone, gimme your digits.
Her: no, I don't really know you and all...I'm sorry.
Me: No problem, I will leave you to yourself now.
So, as I turned, I said bye in Tswana, a language in South Africa and she told me to wait, she came back and we started talking again, it was abit weird what happened haha!
next thing I know we were talking about poetry and she asked me to recite some of my pieces, I did. And she was impressed, I told her to do something and she told me she sings, and she sang beautifully. We exchanged numbers and I promised I would call her to give her my numbers.
That's about it, lights out.
Later PlayerZ
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Good evening gents, remember this entry, a couple of months ago, really long time isn't it? Well, this was by far the longest seduction I've ever pulled on any chick, at first it was experiment. Along the way though, I fell for her but never told her nothing. We flirted a lot, but none of us seemed to give in.Nino-Tk said:
Today though, on BBM, she wrote me a poem, proclaiming her love for me...yes, she said the "L" word, and what was so resounding about that was it happened as I was busy busting her balls and teasing her about everything I could think of. She admitted that she has fallen for me hard, and its weird because 3 weeks after I met her, I asked her out and she said no, normally I would have Next'ed her, but I carried on with my confident seduction and now its on.
So, I won't lie, I've also fallen for her hard this seduction took out my all, and she seduced me too, that I will admit. The next time we meet will be interesting after these revelations.
But relax guys, I'm not catching the one-itis, it just feels so good to want more than just beauty and sex from a woman for once in like years, haven't felt like this since I broke up with the girl that brought me here. Her name is Presh...
Peace and Love.
apocolipto
Senior Don Juan
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Good job man
Now what's your next challenge your setting yourself?
Now what's your next challenge your setting yourself?
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Thanks Apocolipto, well the next challenge is to get fully comfortable with sex, want to think less during it and lose my on and off performance anxiety. So, that's the next thing I'm working on but with more experience, I will get there! I'm getting there!
Well my players, I will not be posting as much as I have recently, starting with my final exams on the 22nd of October till the 26th of November. My last exams in highschool, so much riding on my results, I really got to deliver. And I will get the top marks to get me into a Uni. Can't believe I'm about to get done with HS though.
All the best my brothers.
Well my players, I will not be posting as much as I have recently, starting with my final exams on the 22nd of October till the 26th of November. My last exams in highschool, so much riding on my results, I really got to deliver. And I will get the top marks to get me into a Uni. Can't believe I'm about to get done with HS though.
All the best my brothers.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Greetings my fellow Players in Game.(Really have to stop that cheesy AF greeting)
Man, I missed this place. It almost feels like all you guys are brothers, in a weird way.
As my last post stated, I have started with my end-year exams, I'm more than half way done, only left with 4 papers and I will be done by the 26th of this month.
So why am I back? Well...I submerged myself in my books, and women, not so much. I returned to PMO, was severely down because of that...it was more than 60 effin' days man! The exam stress was also weighing down on me ,that's when I realized, F*ck this! I'm getting back in the game.
So, there is this girl I know, her name is Kaytee. I approached her last week and discussed the idea of us hooking up at my place. We exchanged numbers, but she never did call. I saw her today at school and as she was coming my way, I blocked her.
Me: I knew you to be everything, but not a liar...(Melodramatic)
Her: oh...about,...OH! I actually though you were joking hey..
Me: (straightening face), I wasn't, I was serious hey.
Her: is the offer still on?
Me: of course...
Her: okay, I bought a new phone, take my digits and we can whatsapp.
Me: hehe, sure.
Her: are you still gonna cook a meal for me?
MeLean in to whisper) if you make me *** in a minute, maybe. You will have to work.
Her: (Leans in to whisper)...I cannot wait, I will be waiting. I will tel you my exam schedule...I'm sure we can work something out.
Me: Okay then....
She sent me her exam timetable, and well, I can only do it this Saturday, else I will have to wait until she is done with hers. Crossing fingers that my dad won't be around, but knowing him, he will be having a freaking party again. I'm still crossing my fingers though.
On to the bus situation, now this one is promising. My bus came earlier than usual today and as I entered, it was hella full! But, Kaytee's lil sister, offered me a free seat next to her. She is just as hot, if not, more hotter than Kaytee actually but she is 14. I just made convo with her, and encouraged her to live her life, whatever that means.
As we were talkin, I noticed a girl that I've been trying to get back to mine about to get off at her bus stop. I instinctively got up, and went off with her. She seemed pleased. Her name is Rhu
Me: Hey, long time ain't it?
Her: yeah, it has been indeed. I hope you are walking me home.
Me: of course, but first, I'd really like you to visit my place, when you aren't writing.
Her: Okay, I'd really like that...you naughty hey, but your innocent face is unassuming.
Me: oh stop it you, so...I'm not writing on Friday, how's that?
Her: Ah...I'm writing, how about tomorrow?
Me: I'm writing...damn!
Her: Well, take a taxi back home instead of the bus, you will arrive earlier and I can come to your place when you call me.
Me: Nice, you not just a looker huh...I like that, okay I will take a cab! And call you back to mine, so we can chill...and amongst other things...explore each other's dark sexual fantasies.
Her: oooh...I prefer to show than tell.
Me: you will show it all tomorrow.
Her: Sure thang.
(Hug)....lol that was needless is it?
Anyway, I learned something. Remember, I'm really comfortable with approaching, I love it in fact and I'm a good conversationalist...those things give me a rush more so than fear. I've been dedicating my thoughts consciously towards closing. I asked my best friend Sabz(remember him), he lives in a different province now but he was here for the weekend, I asked him what he thinks I lacked in my closing skill.
He told me something I've read about on somewhere on the net, either from Alan Roger Currie or David X, I just never took it seriously. And that is smiling. You see, I'm a jokester, I can't help but smile and now I can see why Kaytee thought I was 'joking'...and why, when I'm truly being honest, most women think I'm fooling around. He told me not to smile too much as that gives off friendly vibes. And being a friend decreases sexual attraction.
In the above dialogues, I didn't smile much and I must say, it works wonders. I don't know how to explain it, but I will approach more this way and lodge my results.
Later PlayerZ.
Man, I missed this place. It almost feels like all you guys are brothers, in a weird way.
As my last post stated, I have started with my end-year exams, I'm more than half way done, only left with 4 papers and I will be done by the 26th of this month.
So why am I back? Well...I submerged myself in my books, and women, not so much. I returned to PMO, was severely down because of that...it was more than 60 effin' days man! The exam stress was also weighing down on me ,that's when I realized, F*ck this! I'm getting back in the game.
So, there is this girl I know, her name is Kaytee. I approached her last week and discussed the idea of us hooking up at my place. We exchanged numbers, but she never did call. I saw her today at school and as she was coming my way, I blocked her.
Me: I knew you to be everything, but not a liar...(Melodramatic)
Her: oh...about,...OH! I actually though you were joking hey..
Me: (straightening face), I wasn't, I was serious hey.
Her: is the offer still on?
Me: of course...
Her: okay, I bought a new phone, take my digits and we can whatsapp.
Me: hehe, sure.
Her: are you still gonna cook a meal for me?
Me
Lean in to whisper) if you make me *** in a minute, maybe. You will have to work.Her: (Leans in to whisper)...I cannot wait, I will be waiting. I will tel you my exam schedule...I'm sure we can work something out.
Me: Okay then....
She sent me her exam timetable, and well, I can only do it this Saturday, else I will have to wait until she is done with hers. Crossing fingers that my dad won't be around, but knowing him, he will be having a freaking party again. I'm still crossing my fingers though.
On to the bus situation, now this one is promising. My bus came earlier than usual today and as I entered, it was hella full! But, Kaytee's lil sister, offered me a free seat next to her. She is just as hot, if not, more hotter than Kaytee actually but she is 14. I just made convo with her, and encouraged her to live her life, whatever that means.
As we were talkin, I noticed a girl that I've been trying to get back to mine about to get off at her bus stop. I instinctively got up, and went off with her. She seemed pleased. Her name is Rhu
Me: Hey, long time ain't it?
Her: yeah, it has been indeed. I hope you are walking me home.
Me: of course, but first, I'd really like you to visit my place, when you aren't writing.
Her: Okay, I'd really like that...you naughty hey, but your innocent face is unassuming.
Me: oh stop it you, so...I'm not writing on Friday, how's that?
Her: Ah...I'm writing, how about tomorrow?
Me: I'm writing...damn!
Her: Well, take a taxi back home instead of the bus, you will arrive earlier and I can come to your place when you call me.
Me: Nice, you not just a looker huh...I like that, okay I will take a cab! And call you back to mine, so we can chill...and amongst other things...explore each other's dark sexual fantasies.
Her: oooh...I prefer to show than tell.
Me: you will show it all tomorrow.
Her: Sure thang.
(Hug)....lol that was needless is it?
Anyway, I learned something. Remember, I'm really comfortable with approaching, I love it in fact and I'm a good conversationalist...those things give me a rush more so than fear. I've been dedicating my thoughts consciously towards closing. I asked my best friend Sabz(remember him), he lives in a different province now but he was here for the weekend, I asked him what he thinks I lacked in my closing skill.
He told me something I've read about on somewhere on the net, either from Alan Roger Currie or David X, I just never took it seriously. And that is smiling. You see, I'm a jokester, I can't help but smile and now I can see why Kaytee thought I was 'joking'...and why, when I'm truly being honest, most women think I'm fooling around. He told me not to smile too much as that gives off friendly vibes. And being a friend decreases sexual attraction.
In the above dialogues, I didn't smile much and I must say, it works wonders. I don't know how to explain it, but I will approach more this way and lodge my results.
Later PlayerZ.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
apocolipto
Senior Don Juan
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Well, I predict your gonna have sex in the near future. One girl is Rhu and the other Kaytee. Make us proud boy
Jack Wealthy
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Your 500th post is amazing. At loud venues be loud. LOUD. Like Wu tang clan at full volume. Be close too. Work fast and accept frequent rejection.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Ah Apocolipto, you have morphed into 'Paul The Octopus', Thanks though bro, appreciate the vote of confidence. Jack, I'm currently working on working fast...lol that doesn't make sense but yeah, one thing I find is, rejection is frequent, but you just gotta suck it up!
Well, this is a small update. Rhu seems to be a flake, when we were supposed to meet up, that damn broad switched off her phone. I called her later that night as to find out what happened, and apparently, her battery died out on her. Bollocks! Bollocks! Bollocks! So, I told her I aint pissed or anything like that but I'm not gonna call her any longer. I told her that she should call me whenever she is ready to meet up with me.
With Kaytee, well, she asked me at school about the whole business of us exchanging orgasms. She told me she was really up for it, but only in the context of a committed relationship. I kept quiet, she asked me what I thought about that, and I told her the truth that, I don't want a relationship at this time, I just wanted to have fun(sex). She told me that, she would rather pass. I didn't sweat or jock her about us having sex, I just gracefully left it and avoided the subject.
That was last week. Today, I tell her on whatsapp that she was seeing me for the last time on the bus. She told me she would miss me and asked if I was going to school tomorrow, I said no. She said she is coming over at about 12, for that "lunch".
So, players...alil insight here maybe? I told her I don't want no relationship and yet she is offering to come over my place tomorrow, supposedly for lunch. Will it be immoral if I do lay her tomorrow? Will it be a pvssy move if I don't?...
Later PlayerZ.
Well, this is a small update. Rhu seems to be a flake, when we were supposed to meet up, that damn broad switched off her phone. I called her later that night as to find out what happened, and apparently, her battery died out on her. Bollocks! Bollocks! Bollocks! So, I told her I aint pissed or anything like that but I'm not gonna call her any longer. I told her that she should call me whenever she is ready to meet up with me.
With Kaytee, well, she asked me at school about the whole business of us exchanging orgasms. She told me she was really up for it, but only in the context of a committed relationship. I kept quiet, she asked me what I thought about that, and I told her the truth that, I don't want a relationship at this time, I just wanted to have fun(sex). She told me that, she would rather pass. I didn't sweat or jock her about us having sex, I just gracefully left it and avoided the subject.
That was last week. Today, I tell her on whatsapp that she was seeing me for the last time on the bus. She told me she would miss me and asked if I was going to school tomorrow, I said no. She said she is coming over at about 12, for that "lunch".
So, players...alil insight here maybe? I told her I don't want no relationship and yet she is offering to come over my place tomorrow, supposedly for lunch. Will it be immoral if I do lay her tomorrow? Will it be a pvssy move if I don't?...
Later PlayerZ.
apocolipto
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Her coming over is an invitation. You must lay her.
If you get LMR just agree verbally but continue physicly.
EX: Her: We should stop..
YOU: we should..(continuing foreplay or whatever.)
Just lay her lol
If you get LMR just agree verbally but continue physicly.
EX: Her: We should stop..
YOU: we should..(continuing foreplay or whatever.)
Just lay her lol
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Meh, that girl didn't show up. I told her sh*t though, instead of having the decency to let me know that she wouldn't be coming, I had to contact her at about 13:14 to ask if she was still coming. To which she just said "Nope". I told her off though, aint gonna tolerate that ish. I was cool, not angry or outta control. Just firm.
I returned to the social world today after a long hiatus. And for some reason, this has made me moody. Presh, the girl I thought I was "falling" for, nah, I'm starting to get a bad feeling about this, feel like she is taking me for a ride. The ambiguous status updates, the attention whoring on other guys walls.
If I didn't know why I never want a relationship, its this sh*t. I know now, if any of you guys see me trying to go for a relationship again until I'm 35, kill me. Casual Sex all the way now! If that means I will be perceived as a shallow jerk or whatever then so be it. I don't care now, fvck it!
I returned to the social world today after a long hiatus. And for some reason, this has made me moody. Presh, the girl I thought I was "falling" for, nah, I'm starting to get a bad feeling about this, feel like she is taking me for a ride. The ambiguous status updates, the attention whoring on other guys walls.
If I didn't know why I never want a relationship, its this sh*t. I know now, if any of you guys see me trying to go for a relationship again until I'm 35, kill me. Casual Sex all the way now! If that means I will be perceived as a shallow jerk or whatever then so be it. I don't care now, fvck it!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Ah Dr.LASR, thanks man. Don't try it, do it home boy, you won't look back I promise you.
My Dawgs.
Okay, this was one helluva nice day I must say(Got a Kiss close). I woke up kinda mellow though, must be because I slept late and woke up early for my aptitude test at CTI. I got lost on way there, had to ask hawkers and security guards for directions, I found it and wrote the test. It was alright. I made the necessary points for my course but I was 2 points off, but I was okay'ed.
I then went to the mall and tried to achieve my goal of reaching a 100 day or night approaches until the world 'ends' haha. I went inside the mall and noticed that many women were in groups or with their parents and I really didn't want to deal with all of that.
I then noticed a twenty something short girl and I decided, hey, why not?
Me: hey.
Her: (gives me a creeped out look)..erm, hii.
Me: so, what's your name?
Her: why?
Me: I wana get with you sometime in the future
Her: No, thanks.
Me: Yes? Okay.
I f*ucked off, its not her I want, its the lay I desire, she aint nothing, she is useless to my goal. I walked around for another 5 minutes and I noticed a girl walking towards me, she had a scold on her face and seemed somewhat downbeat. I thought? Hey, do it for the lay.
Me: and why are so angry?
Her: I'm not angry...
Me: you look angry, oh well, what is your name?
Her: I'm O'rah. I'm just mad because I'm lost in this damn mall, I'm looking for Mr. Price.
Me: Oh, you mean the clothes shop? I know that, lemme take you there.
Her: okay, cool...what's your name?
Me: I'm Nino, so where do you live?
Her: right around here, you?
Me: Far from here actually, gotta take a taxi. But the good thing is, since you live here, I can visit you anytime.
Her: and visit me for what actually?
Me: amongst other things, we are probably gonna exchange orgasms.
Her: (Looks me in the eye)
Me: (Stared at her dead in the eye ball)
Her: wow...you must be crazy, wow...I cannot believe what you just said! Oh my God dude.
Me: Tell me when you are done putting up an act.
Her: excuse me?
Me: if you were really put off by my approach, you would have told me to f*uck off already, isn't it?
Her: just get me to that shop.
Now, at this point, something was like....stick with this, probably my dik but hey, we got to the shop and I pointed her to it and said bye, she said "help me choose some nice shoes", I was like " only if I get my benefits, they better be worth it", she nodded and we went into the shop. I remember criticizing every thing she liked and recommending downright ugly sh*t. She was intrigued by me, I remember her frequently asking if I was high or drunk because of my brashness. I couldn't give a tit!
Then, we went into the shoe department, it got empty. She stood there, looked at me with "hold me NOW" eyes, my gut kicked in like a motherf*cker. I held her neck and just smooched her, she jumped on top of me, and I had to hold her thighs with my hands. Full make out right there on the spot. In my mind I'm like, I gotta isolate and bang this thang right quick, I held her hand, tried to find a secluded area so I could lay, but I couldn't. Logistics weren't on my side. Damn!
We ended up making out on some restaurant benches. At about 4, I told her I had to leave, she begged me to stay, I didn't. She took my bbm pin, invited me and as I type this in, this is actually her status update right now " NINO" dude, you made my day, the award goes to you tonight, LET'S HOPE IT LASTS, u jus filled it with luv and thots, lol, yoh, dude"....yeah, that's her status.
We are arranging to meetup but its getting difficult,because she is working and is going for holidays on the day of my prom( 7 Dec) so, still gotta figure that out. She wants me now.
So, I'm on 2 out of 100. I have to return to CTI tomorrow so, I'm gonna hit the mall again. Up my numbers abit...let's see what it holds eh?.
Later Gents!
My Dawgs.
Okay, this was one helluva nice day I must say(Got a Kiss close). I woke up kinda mellow though, must be because I slept late and woke up early for my aptitude test at CTI. I got lost on way there, had to ask hawkers and security guards for directions, I found it and wrote the test. It was alright. I made the necessary points for my course but I was 2 points off, but I was okay'ed.
I then went to the mall and tried to achieve my goal of reaching a 100 day or night approaches until the world 'ends' haha. I went inside the mall and noticed that many women were in groups or with their parents and I really didn't want to deal with all of that.
I then noticed a twenty something short girl and I decided, hey, why not?
Me: hey.
Her: (gives me a creeped out look)..erm, hii.
Me: so, what's your name?
Her: why?
Me: I wana get with you sometime in the future
Her: No, thanks.
Me: Yes? Okay.
I f*ucked off, its not her I want, its the lay I desire, she aint nothing, she is useless to my goal. I walked around for another 5 minutes and I noticed a girl walking towards me, she had a scold on her face and seemed somewhat downbeat. I thought? Hey, do it for the lay.
Me: and why are so angry?
Her: I'm not angry...
Me: you look angry, oh well, what is your name?
Her: I'm O'rah. I'm just mad because I'm lost in this damn mall, I'm looking for Mr. Price.
Me: Oh, you mean the clothes shop? I know that, lemme take you there.
Her: okay, cool...what's your name?
Me: I'm Nino, so where do you live?
Her: right around here, you?
Me: Far from here actually, gotta take a taxi. But the good thing is, since you live here, I can visit you anytime.
Her: and visit me for what actually?
Me: amongst other things, we are probably gonna exchange orgasms.
Her: (Looks me in the eye)
Me: (Stared at her dead in the eye ball)
Her: wow...you must be crazy, wow...I cannot believe what you just said! Oh my God dude.
Me: Tell me when you are done putting up an act.
Her: excuse me?
Me: if you were really put off by my approach, you would have told me to f*uck off already, isn't it?
Her: just get me to that shop.
Now, at this point, something was like....stick with this, probably my dik but hey, we got to the shop and I pointed her to it and said bye, she said "help me choose some nice shoes", I was like " only if I get my benefits, they better be worth it", she nodded and we went into the shop. I remember criticizing every thing she liked and recommending downright ugly sh*t. She was intrigued by me, I remember her frequently asking if I was high or drunk because of my brashness. I couldn't give a tit!
Then, we went into the shoe department, it got empty. She stood there, looked at me with "hold me NOW" eyes, my gut kicked in like a motherf*cker. I held her neck and just smooched her, she jumped on top of me, and I had to hold her thighs with my hands. Full make out right there on the spot. In my mind I'm like, I gotta isolate and bang this thang right quick, I held her hand, tried to find a secluded area so I could lay, but I couldn't. Logistics weren't on my side. Damn!
We ended up making out on some restaurant benches. At about 4, I told her I had to leave, she begged me to stay, I didn't. She took my bbm pin, invited me and as I type this in, this is actually her status update right now " NINO" dude, you made my day, the award goes to you tonight, LET'S HOPE IT LASTS, u jus filled it with luv and thots, lol, yoh, dude"....yeah, that's her status.
We are arranging to meetup but its getting difficult,because she is working and is going for holidays on the day of my prom( 7 Dec) so, still gotta figure that out. She wants me now.
So, I'm on 2 out of 100. I have to return to CTI tomorrow so, I'm gonna hit the mall again. Up my numbers abit...let's see what it holds eh?.
Later Gents!
apocolipto
Senior Don Juan
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Damn dude!! That was epic! I thought my closing was beginning to go great, but you have one out of two (50%) success rate. Respect Nino.
Lol I can't wait for tomorrow's field report!
And u could really fvck that chick.
Lol I can't wait for tomorrow's field report!
And u could really fvck that chick.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Thanks for the big up Apoco.
It has been way too long, reason being I haven't had access to internet, but now, its all good.
Well, I went to the mall that day, but I kinda chickened out at approaching, mostly because my targets were with other girls, I can group approach but I hate it because I find it useless when I'm not at a party or in school or a place where I know I will see them on a regular or semi-regular basis.
Last week Friday was my Matric Dance, what you guys Prom, or whatever it is. Looked Phly, so did my Date, Pumi. Anyway, the main even was okay, not Wow! Like I was kinda expecting, kinda emotional because we were all seeing each other for the last time. Anyway, after that, it was time for the after part, on our way there, Sky Vodka, Absolute Vodka and some Tequila my buds and I bought was destroyed when the damn stuff fell from the back of our car, the door wasn't closed properly, R580 down the drain.
Things just got messed up from then, we got to the club and I was like, "What the hell?" The damn place was small, like damn...why call this place a club? Anyway, I just wanted to have fun, tried getting lucky with two of my school girls, or should I say, former school girls, they had their dates with em so. No luck there. At that point I couldn't wait to get to the "The party after the after party", it was a mansion where all of us could sleep, just imagine the orgies!
Then, the news came, the mansion had been cancelled because not enough tickets had been bought. We got our money back, but I was just extremely bored at this time. Pumi came to me and we started talking, one thing led to another, we made out on the couches, and she told me wanted a relationship, to which I said yes. I was drunk and I still regret that, I don't know how to break it to her because she is really into me, but I just don't a relationship.
Anyway, f*ck, I hate talking about that event. I haven't been going out recently and that is bad for the goal I wana reach, 100 approaches, so gents, tomorrow, I go to Soweto, I'm leaving my hood because most girls have visited for the festive season. I'm gonna come back home next year. Soweto is big, and I wana get there and let it rip.
Later Hommies.
It has been way too long, reason being I haven't had access to internet, but now, its all good.
Well, I went to the mall that day, but I kinda chickened out at approaching, mostly because my targets were with other girls, I can group approach but I hate it because I find it useless when I'm not at a party or in school or a place where I know I will see them on a regular or semi-regular basis.
Last week Friday was my Matric Dance, what you guys Prom, or whatever it is. Looked Phly, so did my Date, Pumi. Anyway, the main even was okay, not Wow! Like I was kinda expecting, kinda emotional because we were all seeing each other for the last time. Anyway, after that, it was time for the after part, on our way there, Sky Vodka, Absolute Vodka and some Tequila my buds and I bought was destroyed when the damn stuff fell from the back of our car, the door wasn't closed properly, R580 down the drain.
Things just got messed up from then, we got to the club and I was like, "What the hell?" The damn place was small, like damn...why call this place a club? Anyway, I just wanted to have fun, tried getting lucky with two of my school girls, or should I say, former school girls, they had their dates with em so. No luck there. At that point I couldn't wait to get to the "The party after the after party", it was a mansion where all of us could sleep, just imagine the orgies!
Then, the news came, the mansion had been cancelled because not enough tickets had been bought. We got our money back, but I was just extremely bored at this time. Pumi came to me and we started talking, one thing led to another, we made out on the couches, and she told me wanted a relationship, to which I said yes. I was drunk and I still regret that, I don't know how to break it to her because she is really into me, but I just don't a relationship.
Anyway, f*ck, I hate talking about that event. I haven't been going out recently and that is bad for the goal I wana reach, 100 approaches, so gents, tomorrow, I go to Soweto, I'm leaving my hood because most girls have visited for the festive season. I'm gonna come back home next year. Soweto is big, and I wana get there and let it rip.
Later Hommies.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Nino! You will be proud to hear that I tried to kiss a girl I just met in the airport a few weeks ago. I thought about being direct and never having regrets. It didn't go so well as yours though! I could tell she liked me, but we never had that private moment that you got (we kissed a couple times, but it seemed like there was something on her mind. Maybe a boyfriend!)
As soon as she still wanted to go to the shoe store after your comment, you knew it was on. You hung in there and kept your cool!
As soon as she still wanted to go to the shoe store after your comment, you knew it was on. You hung in there and kept your cool!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.