"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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spider_007

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ok SuperGigalo DJ, gods gift to women, _____007 or what ever you call your self, It's your turn to confess:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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this dude is fycking wacko!

I hope he stays to help my 10 hours work days! :)
 

Black_Italian

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back by popular demand..........

Stop with ur crying oh and dat guy who said about the BFs hittin me. Ummm that guy in the pic isn't me hahaha ur a tool if u think that guy is Italian
 

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Originally posted by 007~JC
Confess what? You guys will soon see video proof of me sarging. It's on it's way. ;)

I just hope DrBird will..fly in.. from wherever he is and sarge with me!

-007
Dude that wud be awesome!! that wud really help some guys here ( especially me ). Id love to see you sarging man, i could learn a helluva lot!:D

i sarge alone, its really tough :down:

looking forward to ya vidz 007~JC, nice work!

peace
muttley
 

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it was fun lol some of my more merable posts

My gay friend teaching me to pimp

Porn in the drawer

Scared to kiss

Loose
(Im [Super]MaN to)

ONE OF MY FAV'S
THE NINJA

Her name rhymes with a female body part?

My girl looks like my best friend

Hahahahaha it was fun...... Oh and this thread of course hahahah i luv stirrign up arguments. OH OH OH and the one were i was a femanist sayign its ok for women to be sluts..... hahahah

Oh and the ones under The_Mack19 were im a Uber Gamer trying to pickup at gaming shops shoing girls my Micro

Pro Gamer
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OneArmDeeJay

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Ok you got me none of those pics are of girls i know or of me or of anyone i know and i am a troll.

Every great troll comes to an end.

You guys are tools for beliving half that **** i spouted out.

Hahahaha

Ninja out..... for the last time
How sad and f@gish.....:down: Even though I gave you alittle benifit of the doubt and I didn't quite like how christz did it, I'm glad he did. The fact that you come on her completly lying about everything you did and waste peoples time answering your questions shows just shows that you are a distrubed little man who gets off of on this and has no respect for people or yourself. Leave BI and don't ever come back!

Thanks christz for bringing it public consedering this bastard wouldnt come clean if you did it in private. Even though I thought it wasn't right, in the end good call. And also so all the new people can see who he really is, a donky c@ck suckin, tard eatin, cVm slVt, screwed up in the head pVssy he really is. :down: :down: :down:
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Ok you got me none of those pics are of girls i know or of me or of anyone i know and i am a troll.

Every great troll comes to an end.

You guys are tools for beliving half that **** i spouted out.

Hahahaha

Ninja out..... for the last time

Goddammit -

You know - I stuck up for you, not because you didn't sound like a bullsh*tter but because I have a strong belief in the integrity of everyone until I am proven wrong. But what a douchebag -

Christz, I apologize for doubting you - I am pretty new to the the message board scene and I guess I just don't have the "troll sense" that you do.

No f*cking remorse, Black_Italian. You're gonna get your a** handed to you one day. Karma is real and you will feel it. Just look out.

You haven't made me stop believing in people but you HAVE taught me to be a little more cautious for sure. That something, I guess.

f****ck...

~Sloopy

P.S. Oh, and we KNOW that those pictures of you with the girls really are you. Why are you so ashamed? Because you look like a sleazebag? How do I know it's you? Because I see the same pervy eyes staring at me from behind the ninja mask in your horribly photoshopped ninja pictures.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Boredom is the greatest sin.

You have so many opportunities to shine yet you waste your precious time trolling.

Not mad at ya or nothing...in fact it's very, very sad! :(
 

He Man Woman Hater

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Ok you got me none of those pics are of girls i know or of me or of anyone i know and i am a troll.

Every great troll comes to an end.

You guys are tools for beliving half that **** i spouted out.

Hahahaha

Ninja out..... for the last time
fooling a couple people on the net must be the highlight of your life

I feel sorry for you:(
 

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Well i thought he was funny!

Plus from the first time i got here it was bloody obvious to me that this guy was mucking about!

Good work ninja!
 

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From NOW ON, all DJS shall respect the word of christz and the cooler DJs, if WE say they are fake, THEY ARE FAKE, if WE say that advice is bad, THEY ARE BAD, Obey or be inferior.
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
it was fun lol some of my more merable posts

My gay friend teaching me to pimp

Porn in the drawer

Scared to kiss

Loose
(Im [Super]MaN to)

ONE OF MY FAV'S
THE NINJA

Her name rhymes with a female body part?

My girl looks like my best friend

Hahahahaha it was fun...... Oh and this thread of course hahahah i luv stirrign up arguments. OH OH OH and the one were i was a femanist sayign its ok for women to be sluts..... hahahah

Oh and the ones under The_Mack19 were im a Uber Gamer trying to pickup at gaming shops shoing girls my Micro

Pro Gamer
You really need help.

Seriously.

You are probably a little, pimply faced 14 year old that sits on his computer and wacks off all day long.

Get a life. I bet you don't even know what a real ***** likes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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everywomanshero

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He didn't fool as many as he thought

He is part of the reason I suggested a big Don Juan meet for a convention. He isn't the only bull****ter on this site either, just one of many. That's the real reason I think there should be a big Don Juan Meet, to shut the bull****ters up.

This site is totally flooded with nonsense from *elitist*, superhero worshipping, KBJ types who rarely, ifever, have any kind of sexual contact with members of the opposite sex. No offense to the normal guys here, and there is a lot of good, honest guys here as well.
 

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its not like we all live by each other...

I live in st louis MO...


we are from all over the world.

but I agree.....this place is a community its the same names here everyday...and even though we argue...we all come back for similar reasons..this whole sosuave thing could be so much bigger and better..but effort will be needed.
 

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Sports...

I used to wrestle in HS. I also ran track. As far as watching sports, I don't really do that. I watch boxing, very occasionally football. Why do you ask? Trying to sell some RAMS tickets :)?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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