"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bron-Yr-Aur Stomp.
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Good job getting all the chicks! Some of em are really good looking!
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The pink shirt i just happend to be wearing the same shirt.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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brenbaus
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that is an awesome idea, ninja, we want to see your g/f!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Hahahaha Nice man im not going to post any of my more errr sexualy explicit pics. I don't want girls to find out i put pics of them givign me ehad on the net.
But yeh good job man the black chik is pretty hot. Also car show pics dont count hahaha everybody gets pics with the models there.
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You've moved up a notch in my book.
-that puts you on notch one.
..seriously dude. nice work. Love seeing another Aussie doing well.
The only question is, why did u waste you're time with that stupid ninja **** and whatever, why not just save ur energy for good posts?
-you've now got mine, and many others respect back. keep it. its really not hard at all
The rest looked like some web cam chicks.
No offense doggy, i'll glady hand out props (ask friv) but when someone is obviously perpetrating the life a DJ I have no choice but to call you out. I got no love for the fakeness you potray.
you can easily make me eat your words if you post a few pics of you and some actual chicks in some non club settings. seriously, anyone can get in a few pics with drunk club chicks. The question is will you prove me wrong.,
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Hahahaha why would I take my camera when I go on a date with a girl? And I do have pics of me fu*king 2 of those girls their but there is NO WAY I will post them. As if put up-close sex pics on the net. I don’t want relatives coming by them especially the girls.
Like i said the club pics are of four diffrent girls and were taken on 3 seperate nights. I took the girl in green clubbing with me to set her up with my friend the night i met the black girl. The other 2 are seperate nights im just wearing the same shirt.
I take my camera everyone now and then when i go clubbing and 2 of the girls are pics taken from WEBCAMS Fiona and LiLi although some of Fionas are taken from my mobile phone.
Have you ever worn a shirt 2 times? or do you just buy shirts use them once and throw them out?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=82592
Friv is not in the pictures with his girls and you say good job to him you tool.
How about you post pictures of you having sex with a girl and pictures of you with club chicks? because then and only then will you be able to give me **** and call me a liar. Till that time shut your lil immature mouth up.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Here is another pic of me clubbing this weekend. The guy to the right in the blue shirt is my friend. He tried to pickup this girl and i was winging it for him but the girl didn't want him at all she kept hanging onto me all night. To bad i have a GF now she seemed like a lot of fun. You can hadly tell in the pic but the girl is a HB8.5
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They are WAY above him in looks. But, if he is pulling girls above his league than more power to him.
You don't look Italian btw. I am guessing Moroccan/N African.
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Try getting a girl with goals and that has an IQ over a 100 and then we'll talk .. lol. Stay kewl bro!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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