You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
that is an awesome idea, ninja, we want to see your g/f!Originally posted by Zhen
post up a pic of your gf
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hahahaha Nice man im not going to post any of my more errr sexualy explicit pics. I don't want girls to find out i put pics of them givign me ehad on the net.Originally posted by BMW
well, as long as you are posting your girls, I'll post mine:
http://www.ratehispanic.com/gallery.php?id=69521
Hahahaha why would I take my camera when I go on a date with a girl? And I do have pics of me fu*king 2 of those girls their but there is NO WAY I will post them. As if put up-close sex pics on the net. I don’t want relatives coming by them especially the girls.Originally posted by Casino
lol this dude is an a$$ clown to the highest levels. doggy, you took some pics of yourself IN THE SAME SHIRT with some CLUB HOES!!!!!
The rest looked like some web cam chicks.
No offense doggy, i'll glady hand out props (ask friv) but when someone is obviously perpetrating the life a DJ I have no choice but to call you out. I got no love for the fakeness you potray.
you can easily make me eat your words if you post a few pics of you and some actual chicks in some non club settings. seriously, anyone can get in a few pics with drunk club chicks. The question is will you prove me wrong.,
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.