@nicksaiz65 did mention using a condom with her in the first post.
@nicksaiz65 is aware of Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
Iron Rule of Tomassi #5
NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth.
Posts about Iron Rules written by Rollo Tomassi
therationalmale.com
I have thought that is the most important of the iron rules.
If a man messes up with Iron Rule of Tomassi #5, she gets pregnant, and she doesn't abort, the man's lifestyle is going to change.
One of my cousins had an unintended pregnancy with a woman. That cousin spent his teens and 20s talking about how he never wanted children. He gets a woman pregnant in a less than desirable situation. She refuses to abort, they marry (I thought that was a bad idea when it happened), and then start playing house. They end up divorcing and now have a strained co-parenting relationship.
Spending the next 18+ years co-parenting with a ho cake is not my idea of a good time.
I've not even mentioned STDs either. Dealing with one of those is unpleasant.