"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Night shift and spinning plate

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So I'm a trucker and I work night shift. I got this job because it was a great opportunity except that I'm now realizing that I only have two days to meet women and when let's say I have 2 plates or more or even one and I want to meet new one.. How can I find the time to set a date without doing double date because there is too much thing to worry about to not get caught ?

I have saturday evening/night and sunday.. This technically let me one day since most women work on monday and cant stay up late. I'm always aiming to getting laid first night, I hate to wait unless it's a very special women or she doesnt give me the choice. How do you guys would handle this ?

I don't think I'm gonna commit to one girl anymore but I'm aiming for one Main chicks, 1 steady side chicks and sexual adventures with *****s on the side.

@deesade I really like the way you handle the game could you give me your opinion on this ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You totally neglected lunch dates..

Take plates on a couple lunch dates during the week, then on Saturdays just invite them over
You: "I'm tired, nightshift drained me. Pizza, movies & cuddling?"..

They know by cuddling you mean ****ing btw
 

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So, you only have one day/night a week free for this stuff?

Might have to settle down with a steady girlfriend for a bit. No?
You mean a main chick ? My LTR's experience has been a total disaster since I became needy and everything by fear or losing her. Thats why I'm trying to spin plates right now
 

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You totally neglected lunch dates..

Take plates on a couple lunch dates during the week, then on Saturdays just invite them over
You: "I'm tired, nightshift drained me. Pizza, movies & cuddling?"..

They know by cuddling you mean ****ing btw
You: "I'm tired, nightshift drained me. Pizza, movies & cuddling?".. __This is great__
I thought about the idea of lunch date but I'm pretty busy during the week with gym, meal prep and stuff but I could possibly to that once a week
 

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You: "I'm tired, nightshift drained me. Pizza, movies & cuddling?".. __This is great__
I thought about the idea of lunch date but I'm pretty busy during the week with gym, meal prep and stuff but I could possibly to that once a week
Obviously you aren't going to have a 6 or 7 girl rotation because you are you know.. Actually doing positive sh*t with your life like working and working out..

But you can no doubt get you 1-2 down to earth chicks who like you enough to work around your schedule..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Obviously you aren't going to have a 6 or 7 girl rotation because you are you know.. Actually doing positive sh*t with your life like working and working out..

But you can no doubt get you 1-2 down to earth chicks who like you enough to work around your schedule..
Potential laid or first date during the week and the one I'm gonna have sex with is gonna have saturday. Seem's good and I'm gonna be able to meet new women during the week
 

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there is too much thing to worry about to not get caught ?
Non exclusive up front there is no such thing as "getting caught".

Granted some women will assume exclusivity. I had that happen with a crazy that I'd only banged twice. I told her I wasn't available one night she asked, as I was seeing another and she turned up at my apartment "suspicious". She claimed I "cheated" on her....

I didn't break my word at all. She just assumed. I'm a little bit more "open" let's say (as there was more to that story. She turned out to be a nut bent on revenge for her perceived "slight")

With your situation you can only mould the game according to your life. I was spinning plates easily working days (plenty of time for a social life/ gym/my own space etc)....when I had to change to evenings I had to kind of adapt my sexual strategy (as @deesade suggests)...

....I went ons nada mas for a good while..........
 
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