"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Night out with AWs

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Went out with my bud last night to a bar where we met four chicks one of which he got a number from a day earlier. All girls but one were gorgeous. He was being nice to them all night. He wasn't a carpert and didn't buy them drinks or anything but he wasn't getting much interest from them. I tried chatting up one of these hotties that i liked but I got extremely bored with her answers. The girls went dancing on already cramped dance floor while I went to look for other opportunities. I talked to a couple of girls but it was so loud I couldn't keep a normal conversation. A UG from the group of 4 afterwards asked me whether I knew those girls I tried talking to and I lied and said that I knew them. The night was over, I didn't even bother asking any of the girls for # because there was no IOI. I went home. My bud tried getting with one of the girls while driving her home but she "casually" mentioned having a BF. (tradeup deal failed!) I knew I probably should've squeezed in between those chicks while they were dancing (my bud was reluctant to) but I didn't want to seem trying too hard.

Oh well, just like any other night eh?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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just another night bud. you seem to do well and chilled back cause the biggest mistake a guy can make is trying to "sarge" (what a stupid ass word that dumb DJS make right?) say the word CHARGE that's better. CHARGE instead of SARGE.

So i'm gonna start that DJ movement of words.. CHARGE INSTEAD OF sarge.

So if you charged those 4 b1tches you would've been dissed. In that situation you gotta chill back cause sooner or later one of those h0s will talk to you and ask about you. Do your thing and if you feel it for one h0 get that number.

Deathdealer out.
 
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You know I kind of stopped giving a damn what happens, but as a side effect I don't put forth much effort lately. I don't expect anything from these encounters. I'm on a burnout cycle right now i guess. The women I want are interested in 30-somethings and any relatively good looking girl has a BF. There's stiff competition for the girls that ARE available and I don't think i'm quite up there with my game to defeat anyone.
 
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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
You know I kind of stopped giving a damn what happens, but as a side effect I don't put forth much effort lately. I don't expect anything from these encounters. I'm on a burnout cycle right now i guess. The women I want are interested in 30-somethings and any relatively good looking girl has a BF. There's stiff competition for the girls that ARE available and I don't think i'm quite up there with my game to defeat anyone.
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Stop thinking like a girlie-man
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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