I had a night out with 2 girls, they are friends. I just feel like I've been wasting all these years, I'm 29 now and have never used bars as a place to meet hot babes and it's time for me to do so before it's too late!
Let me tell you something, everytime I would leave them, or one would walk off, or even when I was with them, a guy was approaching them. I got there at 11:00 and left at around 2:00. In 3 hours, they were approached at least 3 times. I was with them half the time!!!! One time a guy approached them when I was with them! Tonight was a freaking revelation to me and I realized it shouldn't be a big deal to approach women that you don't know! If all these guys can do it, and the worse that can happen is the girl shrugs them off, why in the hell am I not doing it????
When I first got there and before I met up with them, I was at the bar getting a beer. I noticed a girl was staring at me across the other side of the bar. She was by herself. Anyone with skill would have gone up and talked to her. At this point I don't even think it takes balls to approach women. THEY EXPECT TO BE APPROACHED! I didn't approach her because I had a totally different mindset at the beginning of the night. I saw her later that night with some guys, and she smiled at me as I walked by! Why in the hell didn't I talk to her at the beginning of the night?
I can't believe how many times these women were approached.. All they did was listen, and if they weren't interested, they would move on. I'd imagine they are going to move on most of the time.
All I need to do is find openers. At this point, I have 4 Coors Lights in me, I'm not drunk by any means. I still don't know why in the hell I put so much thought into approaching women at bars! It's ridiculous to worry about approaching women at bars!
I only realized this when I was with one of the girls when we were about to leave. I went in my own car, they went in theirs, so they needed to ride home together. I was with one girl, the other was using the bathroom. Finally the girl I was with said she'd better go look for her, she was taking a while. We went out there and she was talking to 2 guys. She said "I figured she would be talking to someone if she took this long." The girl I was with went up there and started talking to them too, so they could leave.
I know some of you may not appreciate this post, but some of you might. That's why I'm writing it.
Let me tell you something, everytime I would leave them, or one would walk off, or even when I was with them, a guy was approaching them. I got there at 11:00 and left at around 2:00. In 3 hours, they were approached at least 3 times. I was with them half the time!!!! One time a guy approached them when I was with them! Tonight was a freaking revelation to me and I realized it shouldn't be a big deal to approach women that you don't know! If all these guys can do it, and the worse that can happen is the girl shrugs them off, why in the hell am I not doing it????
When I first got there and before I met up with them, I was at the bar getting a beer. I noticed a girl was staring at me across the other side of the bar. She was by herself. Anyone with skill would have gone up and talked to her. At this point I don't even think it takes balls to approach women. THEY EXPECT TO BE APPROACHED! I didn't approach her because I had a totally different mindset at the beginning of the night. I saw her later that night with some guys, and she smiled at me as I walked by! Why in the hell didn't I talk to her at the beginning of the night?
I can't believe how many times these women were approached.. All they did was listen, and if they weren't interested, they would move on. I'd imagine they are going to move on most of the time.
All I need to do is find openers. At this point, I have 4 Coors Lights in me, I'm not drunk by any means. I still don't know why in the hell I put so much thought into approaching women at bars! It's ridiculous to worry about approaching women at bars!
I only realized this when I was with one of the girls when we were about to leave. I went in my own car, they went in theirs, so they needed to ride home together. I was with one girl, the other was using the bathroom. Finally the girl I was with said she'd better go look for her, she was taking a while. We went out there and she was talking to 2 guys. She said "I figured she would be talking to someone if she took this long." The girl I was with went up there and started talking to them too, so they could leave.
I know some of you may not appreciate this post, but some of you might. That's why I'm writing it.