omkara
Senior Don Juan
So, this is why it's important to go your own way and develop a life independent of women (MGTOW). We place way too much importance in our society on women and having sex and having girlfriends as a measure of our value. And this is exactly how women want it. They will do everything to reinforce this perception because it raises their value. The p**** cartel has everything arranged the way they want it and people are afraid to step out of line. Women and manginas will be the first ones to shame those who "can't get laid" or "don't have a girlfriend."
I still struggle with this. It's taken me the 3 years I've been on this site to become a little bit more in control of my emotions, to become a little less dependent on women for my feeling of self-worth. I'm still not all the way there yet, but better. The despondency comes less often. My skill has increased.
We need to develop lifestyles where we can be at least somewhat happy without women. I mean guys naturally want and enjoy female company, but unfortunately the circumstances have changed now (for the majority, not the upper 10%) and adaptation is required. For example, I have a friend who's always been a natural, alpha, has always got the chicks since junior high. Naturally social and likable guy. He's divorced recently and although he can get chicks, says the dating scene in america is too much trouble to bother with. He visits south america sometimes to get chicks down there, cause they're more natural and feminine. In fact we're thinking of starting a business down there.
I also try to cultivate hobbies like watching beavis & butthead, drinking beer, lifting, and playing music. Ok I could probably improve on those (would like to add soccer and playing music out more) but somehow tonight, I don't have any prospects, and I'm ok with that because I had 2 crappy dates last week, learned something from them and, know that I can generate more prospects if I put in the work.
I still struggle with this. It's taken me the 3 years I've been on this site to become a little bit more in control of my emotions, to become a little less dependent on women for my feeling of self-worth. I'm still not all the way there yet, but better. The despondency comes less often. My skill has increased.
We need to develop lifestyles where we can be at least somewhat happy without women. I mean guys naturally want and enjoy female company, but unfortunately the circumstances have changed now (for the majority, not the upper 10%) and adaptation is required. For example, I have a friend who's always been a natural, alpha, has always got the chicks since junior high. Naturally social and likable guy. He's divorced recently and although he can get chicks, says the dating scene in america is too much trouble to bother with. He visits south america sometimes to get chicks down there, cause they're more natural and feminine. In fact we're thinking of starting a business down there.
I also try to cultivate hobbies like watching beavis & butthead, drinking beer, lifting, and playing music. Ok I could probably improve on those (would like to add soccer and playing music out more) but somehow tonight, I don't have any prospects, and I'm ok with that because I had 2 crappy dates last week, learned something from them and, know that I can generate more prospects if I put in the work.