"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Night Game: Courageous or Foolish?

dannycc

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I sometimes wonder about going out consistently on weekends.

I'm often tired at the end of the week, have very busy weekends anyway, and yet still often make an attempt to go out on friday and saturday night, if I don't have a date.

Going out on weekend nights gives us great opportunities since this is when women are out and about, and looking to have fun without errands to run, etc.

Yet, I feel like I could often use the rest, and the exhilaration of weekend nights out is offset by the odd sleep cycle and partying when I could use a little downtime.

Thoughts?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hockeyfreak79

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You are probably younger than me but I need down time to recharge, so it's definitely priority on my list. I still manage to get out atleast 1 nite a weekend. Ethier with friends or lone wolfing it.

Luckily I live a decent size metroplex with plenty of nearby options. If I go out alone I limit the time to a small window of 10:30 to 12:30. IME, where I live that seems to be the peak hours to get out & be social.
 

mangotot

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Depends on your priorities in life. Its not all about cold approaching, you could try social or lifestyle game.
 

dannycc

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Yeah, I was pretty tired when I wrote the OP.

I decided to go out anyway and regained a ton of energy.

Got my grind and make out on with a bunch of hot girls.

Life is good! Going out again tonight!
 

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I usually take a 2 hour nap at 5pm on Saturday night. Then you have unlimited energy for the evening. If that doesn't work, distilled water, Spirulina, Milk Thistle, Astaxanthin, Apple Cider Vinegar, Lemon Juice and Valerian root.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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