"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Night Game: Courageous or Foolish?

dannycc

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I sometimes wonder about going out consistently on weekends.

I'm often tired at the end of the week, have very busy weekends anyway, and yet still often make an attempt to go out on friday and saturday night, if I don't have a date.

Going out on weekend nights gives us great opportunities since this is when women are out and about, and looking to have fun without errands to run, etc.

Yet, I feel like I could often use the rest, and the exhilaration of weekend nights out is offset by the odd sleep cycle and partying when I could use a little downtime.

Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hockeyfreak79

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You are probably younger than me but I need down time to recharge, so it's definitely priority on my list. I still manage to get out atleast 1 nite a weekend. Ethier with friends or lone wolfing it.

Luckily I live a decent size metroplex with plenty of nearby options. If I go out alone I limit the time to a small window of 10:30 to 12:30. IME, where I live that seems to be the peak hours to get out & be social.
 

mangotot

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Depends on your priorities in life. Its not all about cold approaching, you could try social or lifestyle game.
 

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Yeah, I was pretty tired when I wrote the OP.

I decided to go out anyway and regained a ton of energy.

Got my grind and make out on with a bunch of hot girls.

Life is good! Going out again tonight!
 

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I usually take a 2 hour nap at 5pm on Saturday night. Then you have unlimited energy for the evening. If that doesn't work, distilled water, Spirulina, Milk Thistle, Astaxanthin, Apple Cider Vinegar, Lemon Juice and Valerian root.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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