“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just completed Week 1 of Podrunner Intervals.

I’ll be at the gym at 5:55 AM tomorrow to do some compound lifts. Gotta get back to my peak strength.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Especially with party hoes that I can’t really relate to
Why not? Because you don't like parties as much as her? Surely there's something else you can talk about, right? Because there's more to her and you than parties.

I'm curious what you'd find if you did this experiment: think about something you really enjoy. Music? Ask an opinion opener about something specific and see what they say... They might answer as you expect. Or they might surprise you.

I'm just trying to suggest not labeling someone before you met them. It's limiting. Not just with women.
 

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Why not? Because you don't like parties as much as her? Surely there's something else you can talk about, right? Because there's more to her and you than parties.

I'm curious what you'd find if you did this experiment: think about something you really enjoy. Music? Ask an opinion opener about something specific and see what they say... They might answer as you expect. Or they might surprise you.

I'm just trying to suggest not labeling someone before you met them. It's limiting. Not just with women.
Yeah one thing I’ve noticed about myself is that I rely pretty heavily on stereotypes. That’s probably not good. I think it’s because the way my brain is set up I like people sorted into categories. I treat my life like an algorithm.

Man, you know how long it’s been since I’ve tried an honest to God Opinion Opener? Sounds like fun. Maybe an excuse for some Daygame? Tell you what, I’ll try it a couple times after I read Day Bang. I’ll write a field Report as well. I do need to approach more anyways.

Also, I’m gonna start watching at least one seduction video/podcast a day. I have a very general birds eye view of Game. Now I need more specifics. If I do this, self improve, put myself out there and keep practicing my approach, my Game will improve leaps and bounds this year by doing this stuff alone. AMS is gonna be the best place to start since he keeps shyt so real. It’ll keep adding to my weird hybrid Game which will eventually be the best.
 

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Corey Wayne: know when to pursue, and know when to back off! It’s a balance. Use your gut feeling. You have to give her the space to wonder about you sometimes...

Dr. Nerdlove: Texting can help maintain emotional momentum, but the main thing is getting her out IN PERSON. Never forget that that is your main goal.

I’ve been binging on Game stuff these last couple weeks. I feel like my Game has definitely improved. Now let’s put it to the test and get some numbers/dates.
 
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I Have It All

Hey guys. Update on me pursuing my purpose and chasing my passions. I got a $100 pair of speakers that they recommended for me on Reddit. They're fvcking fire. I can hear the bass so well. Now I have my producing headphones and speakers. Now the issue isn't so much my setup, it's just learning how to write music competently. How am I gonna learn to do that? Read books, watch YouTube videos, and practice by making lots and lots of tracks.

My hybrid Game Plan is really coming together. I'm not like "wtf do I do to get a girl?" like I was at the start of this journal. I just did a Cold Approach and I may go out to the bars. I'll update you guys on how it goes. I'm gonna keep pushing until I finally achieve my life and sexual goals.

I talked to my Chad friend and texting for more than just logistics it totally fine. So I’m going for it! Always moving towards the hangout.
 
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Hooooooooooo boy guys. I am pisssssssssed. Boy do I have a field report to tell you guys. I'm gonna vent, rage, talk about how shallow slvtty and manipulative women are, and get all my thoughts out on paper.

But in a weird kind of way, I'm glad this unfortunate situation happened to me. My miserable failures show me the way the world really works, and it shows me how I haven't been being an Alpha Male.

And thanks to the internet, I know how to become an Alpha Male.

Thanks to this incident I'm totally revamping my style of Game.

I would most definitely like feedback on this one so if you guys could help me out with some responses.

But at the moment... I let you guys down. I have a program due today. Instead of working on it like I should've, I spent last night getting drunk and chasing ass.

But I'm busting my butt right now working on this program. I'll talk to you dudes after I turn this mess in. Life will fall at my feet, I swear it.
 

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My Revamped Game

After getting some sleep I’ve realized that there’s really no point in revamping my entire Game from the ground up. A hybrid Game can totally work for me, I just have to keep experimenting and see what works for me.

Back into the world of theory. I think my Game needs to be more Red Pilled, less pursuing, and more realistic about the way the world around me works.

I’m just keeping a giant ass algorithm in my head about how I Date.

I’m gonna improve my Game by watching every single video that AMS, Roosh V, and Todd V Dating have put out. That’s a tall order but I have to do it. If I do my Game will skyrocket again. I just gotta never get discouraged, keep experimenting, and never give up.

Can you guys tell me why when I read something it kinda makes sense, but then I go out there and fvck it up, then it makes total sense to me?

As a member on here said, sometimes you gotta learn what not to do

The biggest Game issues that I see now are I’m too nice and I give away my non-sexual attention too freely. All I can do is keep experimenting and tweaking my Game like a Scientist until it finally works for me.
 
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Okay guys, I'm making good progress on studying for this test tomorrow. I know for a fact that I'll pass this Databases test tomorrow. I know exactly what's on it, now I just need to go over the slides. The thing that worries me the most is the SQL stuff because I'm not very familiar with that. But that's nothing that studying can't fix. If I just take my life one step at a time, one day at a time, I'm sure that things will turn out just fine this semester. And in my life in general now that I’m learning how to live it competently.

I’ll keep looking at my life objectively and improving it.

SIDENOTE: If everything goes according to my plan, my GPA is looking like it will be around a 3.1 this semester. If I mess up then it'll be around a 2.7. Not the most excellent thing in the world, but leaps and bounds better than the shyt grades that I cranked out these last two semesters. Although that being said, it's too early to tell exactly what my GPA is gonna be. I need to stop calculating it over and over and just STUDY MY BUTT OFF and then i'll be able to predict it with more accuracy in 3 weeks or so. Plus, if I need to drop anything I always have that option available to me.

Although I will say this. I ran several possible test scenarios with my grades. As long as I don't do something uber-retarded like simply stop trying, I should be totally okay when it comes to my grades this semester. I'll have at least a decent GPA. So I'm going to stop stressing out so much and do the work that is in front of me at the moment.
Get off the site, turn off the cell, study and prepare in a quiet study room. Not at home, not in a loud space. Focus.
 

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Halfway done with my program btw. Just taking a quick break to post up on here
 

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Get off the site, turn off the cell, study and prepare in a quiet study room. Not at home, not in a loud space. Focus.
Music when studying? What do you think?

I’m actually on a quick break now cause I’ve been at it for 5 hours
 

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Can you guys tell me why when I read something it kinda makes sense, but then I go out there and fvck it up, then it makes total sense to me?
Experience is the best teacher. That's all there is to it. You can read all you want, but you'll never truly internalize it until you experience it because experience makes it relevant to you.


Oh that’s gonna kill me bro because this stuff is so boring haha. I’ll give it a shot
It's more efficient. And you'll eventually get in a zone where you won't even notice you're not listening to music. I don't know as much about computers as you, but I think I recall realizing some time ago that a single processor can't multitask. Which means most computers can't. They just do things and switch reaaaally fast which makes it seem like theyre multitasking. We have one processor, the brain. Therefore we can only really process and think about one thing at a time. Switching tasks (checking phone, listening to music) takes your focus from the main task (Cal writes about the effects of this but that's an aside). So music is fine... If it's nonrhythmic or looped so that you forget about it and it becomes background noise. Otherwise you're partitioning your resources - inefficient.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Experience is the best teacher. That's all there is to it. You can read all you want, but you'll never truly internalize it until you experience it because experience makes it relevant to you.




It's more efficient. And you'll eventually get in a zone where you won't even notice you're not listening to music. I don't know as much about computers as you, but I think I recall realizing some time ago that a single processor can't multitask. Which means most computers can't. They just do things and switch reaaaally fast which makes it seem like theyre multitasking. We have one processor, the brain. Therefore we can only really process and think about one thing at a time. Switching tasks (checking phone, listening to music) takes your focus from the main task (Cal writes about the effects of this but that's an aside). So music is fine... If it's nonrhythmic or looped so that you forget about it and it becomes background noise. Otherwise you're partitioning your resources - inefficient.
Y'know out of everything I've done in this journal so far this is most definitely going to be the hardest one to do. I cope with my life by literally listening to dope music 24/7
 

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Or you can just do it
I've done a handful of Daygame approaches off the cuff already but I kinda like to have a plan with what I need to say/do with approaches in general, hence the book. Especially since I need to majorly revise my Game
 

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Another too is, you don't "study" code. You just code. Hence, you're going to see more success in your CS classes if you implement the theory through application AKA implement solutions using the sh|t you learned in the classroom.

Don't just do the walkthrough out your textbook like some noob doing the challenges off FreeCodeCamp and justify it as "studying"

Implement your own version of it. Build it from the ground up. Borrow code if you have to, but make 80% of it your own work. This goes the same for your infrastructure classes as well: put it together in your perspective.

databaseDesign() => {
design( critThinking, writeEntities);
buildSchemas( design, describeType, declareKeys);
implementDatabase(schemas);
optimize(getFaster);
}

I may have been self-taught and went through a coding mcbootcamp, but my success has been solely attributed to going back to the beginning and building the projects on my own immediately after going through the lesson and walkthrough. I didn't learn anything until I struggled to build it on my own. That's how it is done. There's no way around it.

In all seriousness, if that can't be done then you're going to go through some serious heartbreak as you progress through school and even when you start working.
 

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I've done a handful of Daygame approaches off the cuff already but I kinda like to have a plan with what I need to say/do with approaches in general, hence the book. Especially since I need to majorly revise my Game
I'm not talking about approaches. Do the exercise I describe and you will see success.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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