"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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nickname for girl?!...help please!!

zemaj

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hey guys.

so theres this girl im into in my class...not 100% if she feels the same way cos shes generally a bit of a flirt and tease with guys..also told me shes 'seeing' some guy, tho i dont know how serious it is.

anyways chattin on internet, i said bye to her and randomly said "i wish i had a nickname for you"...and she replied "meh, think of one and report back"

any ideas!? lol... should I think of a "cute" nickname for her, or one she deliberately wont like (as a way to tease her) OR just not give her one at all (as she said "report back", i dont want to be seen as her *****)

also as it was comic releif in my country the other day, she asked a few ppl to wear red..which i was gonna do anyways....

so on the day, were having some conversation with a few other ppl around and she said "im clearly in love with her and whipped cos im wearing red" (which was a bit of a joke), and then i said its about time the girl made the effort with the guy, and she said "well i have made effort with u, low-cut top etc" (i guess this again was in a joke context) but i dont know what to make of it...and how serious she is being, or whether its not even worth pursuing her

would really appreciate replies guys

zemaj
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MisterMcGee

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just go for it and stop being on her leash. take control - shes clearly being the one in control here.
 

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Tease and flirt with her, give her the nickname of 'trouble'
 

zemaj

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thanks for tips...yeah i might give "trouble" a go lol.

from the sort of things shes said to me, do you think theres potential to fvck her, or do you think shes just playing a game to entertain herself??
 
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