"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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nickname for girl?!...help please!!

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hey guys.

so theres this girl im into in my class...not 100% if she feels the same way cos shes generally a bit of a flirt and tease with guys..also told me shes 'seeing' some guy, tho i dont know how serious it is.

anyways chattin on internet, i said bye to her and randomly said "i wish i had a nickname for you"...and she replied "meh, think of one and report back"

any ideas!? lol... should I think of a "cute" nickname for her, or one she deliberately wont like (as a way to tease her) OR just not give her one at all (as she said "report back", i dont want to be seen as her *****)

also as it was comic releif in my country the other day, she asked a few ppl to wear red..which i was gonna do anyways....

so on the day, were having some conversation with a few other ppl around and she said "im clearly in love with her and whipped cos im wearing red" (which was a bit of a joke), and then i said its about time the girl made the effort with the guy, and she said "well i have made effort with u, low-cut top etc" (i guess this again was in a joke context) but i dont know what to make of it...and how serious she is being, or whether its not even worth pursuing her

would really appreciate replies guys

zemaj
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just go for it and stop being on her leash. take control - shes clearly being the one in control here.
 
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Tease and flirt with her, give her the nickname of 'trouble'
 
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thanks for tips...yeah i might give "trouble" a go lol.

from the sort of things shes said to me, do you think theres potential to fvck her, or do you think shes just playing a game to entertain herself??
 
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