"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nice way of telling leeches/people to get lost?

Alle_Gory

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I'm usually at the top of my classes, or close to. Problem is that alot of people will ask me for help eventually... mostly the dumb and lazy ones. This stuff isn't rocket science either. Everything is laid out clearly in the materials we are given.

How can I get the leeches off my back without seeming like an a-hole?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Acq

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why not being an ******* ? whats wrong with that ?
 

Pathgen

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I have had a similar problem. I ussually start asking them questions back. Like they say how did you get that answer? Then i reply with "its in the book i just read it. Didn't you understand whats in there?" Then when they say oh but i didnt get it. DONT give them the answer just walk them through it.

Eventually they will never ask for your help anymore. Because its work. Lazy people hate work so if you give them the answer its what they want they will come back for more.

Dont be afraid to be an asswhole, dont blow them off at first, but you shouldnt be giving people your ****ing answers so you can be an ******* if they dont leave you alone
 
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