"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Nice way of telling leeches/people to get lost?

Alle_Gory

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I'm usually at the top of my classes, or close to. Problem is that alot of people will ask me for help eventually... mostly the dumb and lazy ones. This stuff isn't rocket science either. Everything is laid out clearly in the materials we are given.

How can I get the leeches off my back without seeming like an a-hole?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why not being an ******* ? whats wrong with that ?
 

Pathgen

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I have had a similar problem. I ussually start asking them questions back. Like they say how did you get that answer? Then i reply with "its in the book i just read it. Didn't you understand whats in there?" Then when they say oh but i didnt get it. DONT give them the answer just walk them through it.

Eventually they will never ask for your help anymore. Because its work. Lazy people hate work so if you give them the answer its what they want they will come back for more.

Dont be afraid to be an asswhole, dont blow them off at first, but you shouldnt be giving people your ****ing answers so you can be an ******* if they dont leave you alone
 
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