You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It will help attract gold diggers.For those that own high end vehicles(5 Series BMW's, E-Class Mercedes, Newer Corvettes, Etc) has that ever made a difference in attracting females?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I have always found it's usually high T, dominant, or country upbringing type women that go for the trucks. The color is subjective.That being said, I read an article a while back that women are most turned on by black pickup trucks. I don't know if that's accurate though.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
A $500 motorcycle will get you just as much pvssy as a $50K sports car, if not more.
This. I mean I got that bike because it does not consume dubious amounts of gas, looks good to me and should be practical @ getting to and out of work during rush hour. BONUS POINTS if I could do 50-80 mile trips around my hometown.I've owned motorcycles and nice cars, my experience was they were always impressed by the car but that motorcycle generated tingles.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm a truck advocate. It's not what the girls "go for". It's what it says about you. I think a truck sends the message that you are a masculine man more than a car sends that message. It's kind of like Bible Belt and howiestern talking about the motorcycles, the motorcycle sends a certain message.I have always found it's usually high T, dominant, or country upbringing type women that go for the trucks. The color is subjective.
Almost all girls I say I have a motorcycle to want a ride on the back. At least the ones that are down for some action. Shît never fails.A $500 motorcycle will get you just as much pvssy as a $50K sports car, if not more.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.