"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nice tip for all the fellas

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ha i slept with my best (female) friend before

i dont actually think thats what the friendzone is btw. plenty of people sleep with their friends (real actual proper friends) from time to time - its a low key way of something happening, that if both parties are chill is pretty good (as long as it doesn't change the dynamic)

the "friendzone" isn't with your actual good friends (who see you as you really are, at your best, natural funny easy organic) - its with people you dont really know yet where you try and act supplicating, like a weird version of what you think "a nice person is" - stilted, boring, dull - ie not how you are with your actual friends

girls dont put you in this zone, you do it yourself by acting this unnatural way. you're not friends with these people and the reason you have no chance with them isn't because your are 'friends' (youre not) - its because you are being deathly boring and dull

with girls you are real actual friends with its not really that hard for something physical to happen with, but only if you are chill about it, not looking for it, can take it or leave it - or more importantly thats not the reason you are friends with them (or they you)

the "friendzone" should be renamed the puppyzone - its more accurate and also describes your own behavior when in this zone (which friendzone really doesnt!)
 
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