Hey man, I also got Adidas Tuscany good year shoes, cost me AUS $199, but I have gotten a compliment from the hottest chick I have ever known about em and from a few other girls, they may be expensive but they are well worth it!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nice Shoes!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ShizamDaMan
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Eh, I have three pairs of shoes in my rotation. My ratty ass 5 year old Vans, my new pair of Lugz leather sneakers, and a pair of nice Lugz boots. I usually only wear the boots when I go out on a date or have an interview. The other two pairs get rotated as I feel like it.
Never gotten any compliments on shoes except from a friend who has the same pair of boots.
Never gotten any compliments on shoes except from a friend who has the same pair of boots.
kiko
Don Juan
Nike First Touch rubber soles. Ive gotten a few compliments but theres always one girl which notices them.
Girls notice shoes more than anything else coz their such maniacs over them.
Girls notice shoes more than anything else coz their such maniacs over them.
Alen-Delon
Senior Don Juan
My New B's always get notice especially the new 2001 ones theyr 250 a pair. I met a hottie who was wearing same B;s 991 as me and she acctualy made a mention about us having same kind of shoes. i daped that azz
Valdez
Don Juan
Little things such as watches, nice shoes, or even a tattoo are great for opening up conversations and give you the "go head" from girls to try to charm them. As for me I get all sorts of questions from girls such as "how long have you had your ears peirced" (I wear diamond studs) or "Are you catholic?" (referring to my white gold necklace and cross charm) to which I reply "Well this is my peace with God, I used to get in all flavors of trouble". As for shoes I mainly stick to Steve Maddens now. I wear some super nice dressy ones to work with my slacks, and I wear some nice brown casual shoes when not at work. Also, I have a very nice $400 watch and I'm always the first person people ask when wanting to know the time...even if there is another guy with some normal watch on.
These are the casual SM's I'm rockin right now http://204.215.197.33/PRODUCT_IMAGES_MENS/ROLOO228.jpg
These are the casual SM's I'm rockin right now http://204.215.197.33/PRODUCT_IMAGES_MENS/ROLOO228.jpg
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
AF1s
penkitten
Master Don Juan
as i was sitting in the barber shop waiting for my son to be "next" , a man brings in his son.
they are very snooty and the first thing i noticed was he had on a pair of very nice dress shoes that were extra polished and didnt look like he ever got dirty at all .
before he even spoke to me, i already assumed that he was a perfectionist based on the condition of his overly polished shoes that i could see my reflection in across the room.
then i imagined he probally had a hard time with people and especially with his wife because he was too much of a perfectionist.
next thing i know, hes telling us that he is divorced.
who would have thunk it?
NEVER over polish your shoes...
they are very snooty and the first thing i noticed was he had on a pair of very nice dress shoes that were extra polished and didnt look like he ever got dirty at all .
before he even spoke to me, i already assumed that he was a perfectionist based on the condition of his overly polished shoes that i could see my reflection in across the room.
then i imagined he probally had a hard time with people and especially with his wife because he was too much of a perfectionist.
next thing i know, hes telling us that he is divorced.
who would have thunk it?
NEVER over polish your shoes...
KillingTime
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Ive just got some dark brown skechers leather boots, i clean and condition them weekly and keep them looking nice but I don't know if im up to buying all these crazy expensive shoes.... if I only needed one pair then yes but I need like two or three and like it or not they tend to get scuffed up pretty fast (especially since I drive a stick and with all the moving around my feet do they tend to scrape against the pedals)
These are the only shoes I have right now (except for my nasty gym shoes) since I just started working on my look.... I just used to wear some ugly black sneakers with baggy, torn up wal-mart jeans lol, what a slob.
I still need some nice sneakers, black boots and black dress shoes, maybe even some lighter brown shoes.... that's four more pairs and at $100 or so each it's just way out of my college budget ya know?
These are the only shoes I have right now (except for my nasty gym shoes) since I just started working on my look.... I just used to wear some ugly black sneakers with baggy, torn up wal-mart jeans lol, what a slob.
I still need some nice sneakers, black boots and black dress shoes, maybe even some lighter brown shoes.... that's four more pairs and at $100 or so each it's just way out of my college budget ya know?
ShizamDaMan
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Heh, college budgets are a joke. Just have a pair that is nice enough.
Though I've found in college most girls are very open to meeting new people anywhere. I'd say if your game is tight and you have shoes ON you're ok
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Stover
Don Juan
I love rockin my stylish hippie sandals.. Women love them!
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
on a side note: I just purchased a pair of 'Pony M-100s', yo that s*** is tight!