"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice Guy to Jerk, Inevitable?

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SPEAK

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I have gotten a lot more girls since finding this website, but I was raised (by my mom) to respect people's feelings and to treat people and especially women like gold. At a party last night I kissed a girl that I know likes me as the ball dropped signaling the new year, and led her on saying that we should hang out sometime. She said she was going to be right back, but then I started making out with this other girl that I had been dancing with (not 5 minutes after haha) and I know she was upset. I feel really guilty, even tho I had fun. I am wondering what I could have done differently, and if it is an inevitable to go from AFC to Jerk in order to find the middle ground of Don Juan.

Thanks for all the help you have already given me,

SPEAK
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Erik V

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I don't see how knowing more about how to approach and raise interest levels would lead to being a jerk - to become a jerk is a completely different thing. Even when I have become better at talking to strangers in the street, the important thing is to not embarrass myself by being needy, and not insult the girl and make her feel used. You can be a good DJ and perfectly honest at the same time.

It is valid to approach different girls in the same time period, since you never know how any of them will respond - many of them you will only see once or twice, even if you talk or text a bit afterward. That can go on for weeks, and if you would not approach any other girl in the meantime, even if a great and natural opportunity comes up, then you are losing a lot. But make sure to not let the approaches conflict with each other. Don't have the girls in the same room, is a good way to start.
 
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You don't have to feel guilty, she'll get over it, it was only a kiss. As much as nice guys will try to deny it being a jerk (with girls) is the way to get the girls (cant speak for older women), as long as you don't overdo it you'll be fine.

Outside of relationships, at parties etc anythings fairgame no need to worry about girls feelings, cos it's all casual.
 
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