"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice guy lost control of his ****friend

kevin18

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There is a girl “ chubby” that have a very low self esteem in other words she is easy. She was admiring me for few years now and I didn’t really give a ****. But one day I decided to give her a chance. I started to date her but she had already a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is a real jerk. He beat her and is very rude with her.

At the beginning it was great she was doing what I wanted she was admiring me. But fast she saw that I am nice guy so after 1 month she took control. She knows that I love her so she is doing what she want’s and disrespect me a little now.

Now I am like a friend because her jerk only **** her. So she come to see me and tell me let’s go out somewhere I don’t want to be in the house again.What about me?I need sex too.... I have to push her to have sex now it is not like at the beginning.

So I really would appreciate you’re help here. What sould I do and how? I stated to be rude the other day and she asked me if I was angry at her? She always complain about her boyfriend but she always go se him again and again. How can I change my status to make myself like before dominant. This girl is so easy and I am her only “friend” or should say **** friend.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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themanwithnoname

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Fat girls can be selective in dating as any other girls, if she is "easy" you shouldn't have a problem, but then that's how nice guys think, with arrogance.
 

AsianPlayboy

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Kevin is the male version of a slut.

Female sluts give out sex easily.

Male sluts give out love & niceness (ie pays for ****, listens to her stupid ****, and basically puts up with all her ****) easily.
 

Double

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i feel bad for your son. when you get played by a b1tch at least make sure that she is hot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kevin18

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ok

I know I should move on. But I thought that I could practice my knowledge (dominant male) and see if It works before...And she's not fat just a little bit...
 

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That was the most (unintentionally) funny post I've ever read on this message board.... hahaha.
 
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