"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nice guy lost control of his ****friend

kevin18

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There is a girl “ chubby” that have a very low self esteem in other words she is easy. She was admiring me for few years now and I didn’t really give a ****. But one day I decided to give her a chance. I started to date her but she had already a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is a real jerk. He beat her and is very rude with her.

At the beginning it was great she was doing what I wanted she was admiring me. But fast she saw that I am nice guy so after 1 month she took control. She knows that I love her so she is doing what she want’s and disrespect me a little now.

Now I am like a friend because her jerk only **** her. So she come to see me and tell me let’s go out somewhere I don’t want to be in the house again.What about me?I need sex too.... I have to push her to have sex now it is not like at the beginning.

So I really would appreciate you’re help here. What sould I do and how? I stated to be rude the other day and she asked me if I was angry at her? She always complain about her boyfriend but she always go se him again and again. How can I change my status to make myself like before dominant. This girl is so easy and I am her only “friend” or should say **** friend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fat girls can be selective in dating as any other girls, if she is "easy" you shouldn't have a problem, but then that's how nice guys think, with arrogance.
 

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Kevin is the male version of a slut.

Female sluts give out sex easily.

Male sluts give out love & niceness (ie pays for ****, listens to her stupid ****, and basically puts up with all her ****) easily.
 

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i feel bad for your son. when you get played by a b1tch at least make sure that she is hot.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok

I know I should move on. But I thought that I could practice my knowledge (dominant male) and see if It works before...And she's not fat just a little bit...
 

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That was the most (unintentionally) funny post I've ever read on this message board.... hahaha.
 
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