"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nice guy has taken back over... help!

operationivy412

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ive been on this site for a little over 2 years and after the first year i felt like i had everything down good and i was getting tons of results, then i stopped reading and checking up on things for a couple months and i was overwhelmed with college things and other stuff like that, that i completely forgot this site even existed and lost all the information and everything ive ever learned. i started reading again and i came to the conclusion that my nice guy side has taken back over when i wasnt paying attention

my question is what can i do to get rid of my nice guy again, or are there any posts that you know that could help me get motived and get out of this nice guy mode?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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War Against Betaism

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Read The Secrets to the Alpha Male by Carlos Xumos and The Game by Neil Strauss. Even though the latter one is basically a novel, I've noticed that my mindsets and frames changed just by reading it.
 
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