"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nice guy has taken back over... help!

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operationivy412

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ive been on this site for a little over 2 years and after the first year i felt like i had everything down good and i was getting tons of results, then i stopped reading and checking up on things for a couple months and i was overwhelmed with college things and other stuff like that, that i completely forgot this site even existed and lost all the information and everything ive ever learned. i started reading again and i came to the conclusion that my nice guy side has taken back over when i wasnt paying attention

my question is what can i do to get rid of my nice guy again, or are there any posts that you know that could help me get motived and get out of this nice guy mode?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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War Against Betaism

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Read The Secrets to the Alpha Male by Carlos Xumos and The Game by Neil Strauss. Even though the latter one is basically a novel, I've noticed that my mindsets and frames changed just by reading it.
 
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