wjh
Master Don Juan
You guys can't tell that iqqi is a sista?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Interceptor is putting iqqi on a pedistalInterceptor said:BTW, you look absolutely ravishing, darling....
Iqqi is a black girl? That would explain why she's so fiesty maybe.wjh said:You guys can't tell that iqqi is a sista?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Or born and raised in the hood.ketostix said:Iqqi is a black girl? That would explain why she's so fiesty maybe.
I never said it was a cold approach. A lot of times in life, you have to let someone get to know you, before there is genuine attraction.ketostix said:You left out plus you may have been horny, plus you knew him for a while. He didn't get you from a cold approach.
Well your need for proof is in the pics I won't be providing, right? Cause otherwise my detailed account of what happened was my case.ketostix said:ALL THE TIME huh? And not just ugly ones you also said nice. Proof?
I think that money fame power looks, ect, are all superficial, and won't get you to a happy place with a good woman.ketostix said:Like what going for them being nice? Hmm ugly nice guys are pretty common. I agree ugly guys can and would have to have something more going for them that women value besides looks. Money +Fame+power will trump looks and ugliness.
Actually, I don't think I am the only hot chick he has ever gotten. I think the ugly girls are just easier to keep around. Maybe he is lazy. I've seen him with hot chicks before, I just never seen them stick around for long. But then again, its not like I see him all the time.ketostix said:Remember he gets ugly girls. If he's got so much going for him besides looks and according to you ugly guys get hot girls all the time, then why are you the only hot girl he's got? That assumes you're even hot.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
post a pic. i am brutally honest. that means with good comments, too.ThunderMaverick said:And I look like an airbrushed insurgent! But I'm not middle eastern. WTF?
Edit: Hmm I curious now. Iqqi, if it were based on my looks alone would we have sex? I imagine you as Wynona if you ARE telling the truth, so it would be a go for me. =D
There's nothing to contribute, this is your masturbation thread. I'm just enjoying it for the ego-debauchery that it is.iqqi said:^^^You are like a puppy dog that won't go away. And you contribute nothing.
Sorry, I don't duel with card-carrying members of AARP.Interceptor said:Silence, Dog!
You shall not speak to my fiance Iqqi in that manner!
I demand satisfaction,knave!
Prepare for a duel!
En Guarde!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am going to have to start reporting your posts if you don't contribute. Either make a point, follow it up with a quote of what you are debating, or go away. Random insults and accusations don't count.wjh said:There's nothing to contribute, this is your masturbation thread. I'm just enjoying it for the ego-debauchery that it is.
Oh poor you. I've taken enough from this site to last a life-time.iqqi said:I am going to have to start reporting your posts if you don't contribute. Either make a point, follow it up with a quote of what you are debating, or go away. Random insults and accusations don't count.
For instance the post I just quoted is trolling and flame baiting, and looked down upon here at sosuave. Even if it is directed at a girl.
lol - just don't mess up the hairInterceptor said::crackup: LOL! I'll hit you with my wheel chair you whipper snapper!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.