wjh
Master Don Juan
You guys can't tell that iqqi is a sista?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nice Guy Finished First... (reverse field report)
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
can'r resista!
Get it?
Sista?
Resista?
Get it?
Sista?
Resista?
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Dude, I already sent her a card stating that I love her!
I sent her flowers, dude!!
I've picked out the ring, dude!
Dude!
I am in love!
The Hills are alive with the Sound of music!!!!!!!!!!
More chocolates, my angel?
I sent her flowers, dude!!
I've picked out the ring, dude!
Dude!
I am in love!
The Hills are alive with the Sound of music!!!!!!!!!!
More chocolates, my angel?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Or born and raised in the hood.ketostix said:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I never said it was a cold approach. A lot of times in life, you have to let someone get to know you, before there is genuine attraction.ketostix said:
And no, I wasn't just "horny". I WAS turned on, by him.
Well your need for proof is in the pics I won't be providing, right? Cause otherwise my detailed account of what happened was my case.ketostix said:
I do think that him being "nice" was part of what was his intrigue for me. But he wasn't just nice, he had other things going for him. It is never ONE thing that makes a man stand out. It is almost always the total combination. For him, he is polite, nice, respectful, confident, and sexy. A lot of those descriptions are intangible, but I have given detailed explanations in previous posts on this thread about what I mean exactly when I use those terms in regards to him.
I think that money fame power looks, ect, are all superficial, and won't get you to a happy place with a good woman.ketostix said:
When myself and some of the other members of this board stress that you need more going for you, we mean personality, charm, charisma, personal growth. If you have a lot going for you in those areas, it will trump looks, and money.
Not always... but the chicks that value superficial things over real traits that mean something are not the chicks you want to invest yourself in. There will always be someone hotter than you, richer than you, more powerful than you. And a superficial chick will peace out on you the moment one comes along.
Actually, I don't think I am the only hot chick he has ever gotten. I think the ugly girls are just easier to keep around. Maybe he is lazy. I've seen him with hot chicks before, I just never seen them stick around for long. But then again, its not like I see him all the time.ketostix said:
wjh
Master Don Juan
It's hilarious when women explain away generalizations with exceptions lol - and thus create these delusions about themselves, portraying themselves as saints. Awesome.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
^^^You are like a puppy dog that won't go away. And you contribute nothing.
ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
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And I look like an airbrushed insurgent! But I'm not middle eastern. WTF?
Edit: Hmm I curious now. Iqqi, if it were based on my looks alone would we have sex? I imagine you as Wynona if you ARE telling the truth, so it would be a go for me. =D
Edit: Hmm I curious now. Iqqi, if it were based on my looks alone would we have sex? I imagine you as Wynona if you ARE telling the truth, so it would be a go for me. =D
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
But, Iqqi...I..I..I Love you!!!
So how about Salsa night? I'll pick you up on Saturday, 7pm. Wear something sexy.
:woo:
So how about Salsa night? I'll pick you up on Saturday, 7pm. Wear something sexy.
:woo:
iqqi
Master Don Juan
post a pic. i am brutally honest. that means with good comments, too.ThunderMaverick said:
I don't think I look like Wynona. I see why so many ppl compare us though. I am petite, dark hair, nice jawline, intense eyes.
Lol, then again someone once said I looked like this: Kira. The funny part was, they really loved that movie and had a crush on Kira, so they were complimenting me! I gave them a slap on the a$$ to show my gratitude.
wjh
Master Don Juan
There's nothing to contribute, this is your masturbation thread. I'm just enjoying it for the ego-debauchery that it is.iqqi said:
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Silence, Dog!
You shall not speak to my fiance Iqqi in that manner!
I demand satisfaction,knave!
Prepare for a duel!
En Guarde!
You shall not speak to my fiance Iqqi in that manner!
I demand satisfaction,knave!
Prepare for a duel!
En Guarde!
wjh
Master Don Juan
Sorry, I don't duel with card-carrying members of AARP.Interceptor said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
:crackup: LOL! I'll hit you with my wheel chair you whipper snapper!
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I am going to have to start reporting your posts if you don't contribute. Either make a point, follow it up with a quote of what you are debating, or go away. Random insults and accusations don't count.wjh said:
For instance the post I just quoted is trolling and flame baiting, and looked down upon here at sosuave. Even if it is directed at a girl.
wjh
Master Don Juan
Oh poor you. I've taken enough from this site to last a life-time.iqqi said:
In fact, I have the entire dj bible on my iphone.
Do as you wish. You deserve to be treated with contempt.
P.s., this thread is already dead. There are no points to be made. As I've already said, this subject has been covered ad nauseum.
wjh
Master Don Juan
lol - just don't mess up the hairInterceptor said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Now then, if you're all done feeding IQQI's considerable need for male attention for the week, I'll be closing this thread.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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