Nice Guy Finished First... (reverse field report)

[punchitchewy]

212-479-7990.

What, a sex hotline I'm guessing? Why don't you post your address and credit card number then maybe we'll talk.

 

[iqqi]

iqqi's entitlement attitude is also terribly unattractive to me personally.

Can someone please tell me what I think I am entitled to, and where I said something that gave you that idea?

I am trying to have a mature discussion here.

 

[iqqi]

What, a sex hotline I'm guessing? Why don't you post your address and credit card number then maybe we'll talk.

Look, you asked for the digits. Lol. You sure seem to have an entitlement attitude!

 

[wjh]

I am trying to have a mature discussion here.

Oh, you are?

You mean like the times you've called men pu55ies on here because they didn't fit neatly within your paradigm?

Whatever.

It's absolutely pointless to even address your posts on here directly.

 

[iqqi]

^^^ Great. Then don't post bull like what you just posted. There was no real material there. Good job, and that was your 300th post, you really earned it.

 

[wjh]

^^^ Great. Then don't post bull like what you just posted. There was no real material there. Good job, and that was your 300th post, you really earned it.

:yawn:

 

[iqqi]

^^^ 301, congrats. Your contributions are astounding, and will surely make the bible.

 

[wjh]

^^^ 301, congrats. Your contributions are astounding, and will surely make the bible.

 

[iqqi]

Well damn. Now I must pity fvck you. :moon:

But seeing as I like it a little rough sometimes, and you are a fvcking pvssy, I hope you don't mind me slapping you around a little. :box:

 

[Interceptor]

So, Iqqi, what made you "pull the trigger" this time. not before?

 

[wjh]

Well damn. Now I must pity fvck you. :moon:

But seeing as I like it a little rough sometimes, and you are a fvcking pvssy, I hope you don't mind me slapping you around a little. :box:

awww, poor iqqi can't just give up the last word (or smiley in this case lol).

 

[aliasguy]

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Iqqi----

You appear to be pretty invested in making a point, here. I'm not sure exactly WHAT that point is, but you sure get pissed when we don't "GET" it, doncha?

Maybe it's a "loooks don't matter" point, or an "I'm hot and all the sorta ugly guys (But guys with game, nonetheless) really dig me" point, or whatever.

But your frustration is obvious.



You probably feel you've already explained yourself to death on this one, but perhaps you'll humor me in this one request:

Could you tell us WHY you felt compelled to relate this tale to us? What were we to LEARN from it EXACTLY? I am willing to learn from you if you'd like to lay it all out in a straightforward manner. Please leave critiques of our responses out, and go back to the original post ---- WHAT's the TAKEHOME MESSAGE?

Maybe we'll appreciate all this more if you try clueing us in on your motivation.....

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[wjh]

So, Iqqi, what made you "pull the trigger" this time. not before?

i'm guessing her pre-op medication's messing with her head a bit

 

[iqqi]

So, Iqqi, what made you "pull the trigger" this time. not before?

To be honest Interceptor, I kind of knew it would only be a matter of time. I have always found him to be one of the sexiest men I know. I thought he was sexy when I was unhappy in my previous LTR, and wished my ex was more like him in terms of demeanor, and manliness.

When I got out of my LTR, I just wasn't ready to do anything with anyone. I still know I'm not. But this past weekend, one thing just finally led to another. He did some things for me, and I did some things for him too, and it resulted in kind of a comraderie feeling for the night. That was followed up with some sexy dancing. Add in the long standing mutual attraction, and you have a night ripe for going a little too far a little too fast, lol!

 

[Interceptor]

Believe it or not, I really think Iqqi posted it here to give some guys Hope.

I believe it was a well meaning post on her part.

She usually talks about men relating that they're not succeeding because they think they don't have the "looks", and then blame women for being too picky.
When she is trying to make a point , that from her view, it's more about having "game" and something that's confident and relatively "attractive", not necessarily Brad Pitt look a like.

The take home message to everybody is that you must convey sexuality at all times. Don't be a de sexed eunuch.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

awww, poor iqqi can't just give up the last word (or smiley in this case lol).

Yes, an awful lot like a former high post count member I know,..

 

[Interceptor]

To be honest Interceptor, I kind of knew it would only be a matter of time. I have always found him to be one of the sexiest men I know. I thought he was sexy when I was unhappy in my previous LTR, and wished my ex was more like him in terms of demeanor, and manliness.

When I got out of my LTR, I just wasn't ready to do anything with anyone. I still know I'm not. But this past weekend, one thing just finally led to another. He did some things for me, and I did some things for him too, and it resulted in kind of a comraderie feeling for the night. That was followed up with some sexy dancing. Add in the long standing mutual attraction, and you have a night ripe for going a little too far a little too fast, lol!

OK, cool. Thanks.

 

[iqqi]

You probably feel you've already explained yourself to death on this one, but perhaps you'll humor me in this one request:

Could you tell us WHY you felt compelled to relate this tale to us? What were we to LEARN from it EXACTLY? I am willing to learn from you if you'd like to lay it all out in a straightforward manner. Please leave critiques of our responses out, and go back to the original post ---- WHAT's the TAKEHOME MESSAGE?

Well, alias, as usual you read a little too much into things, with an idea already in your head. I don't think anyone has a problem with getting it. That has actually been accused of me. I think the problem is that men here just want to hang on to their hang ups.

And, yes, I have said this over and over. But since you have asked, even though it comes across as condescending, I will just answer you here, instead of telling you to go read the thread.

My point of this thread is to counter the repetitive bs threads where guys think they aren't getting laid due to the fact they aren't models. And that there seems to be some huge fear of being mistaken for a doormat, so all basic civilty goes out the window.

Women ARE attracted to men for more than their looks. Looks are nothing but icing on the cake. AND women ARE interested in good men, with good traits.

 

[wjh]

Could you tell us WHY you felt compelled to relate this tale to us? What were we to LEARN from it EXACTLY? I am willing to learn from you if you'd like to lay it all out in a straightforward manner. Please leave critiques of our responses out, and go back to the original post ---- WHAT's the TAKEHOME MESSAGE?

Maybe we'll appreciate all this more if you try clueing us in on your motivation.....

Dude, it's very simple. She had sex with an ugly guy who did nice things for her.

She's the type of girl who goes on male dominated message boards and tries to tell us that yes, we too, ugly or not, can have sex with a girl for being nice. :cheer:

There's no profound point to be made here.

Rollo laid out a very good explanation of one aspect of a woman's psyche - but really, I think iqqi's ego just wants stroking. This ego-investment she's made sure is frustrating her. lol it's amusing actually. I guess she was hoping to be someone on here. But gosh darnit we're just not understanding her, we're all obviously just emasculated pu55ies. Oh wait no that's just me!

 

[wjh]

Well, alias, as usual you read a little too much into things, with an idea already in your head.

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