jackie jones
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Greetings, everyone.
I am just going to get into the heart of this. I met this girl one summer several years ago. We walked around town, got iced cream, talked, and had a lovely day. I was not forward with her about how I felt only out of fear of rejection. We went our separate ways and I have not seen her since.
I am a different person in many ways now. Especially regarding approaching women.
This week, I was walking around the town where I met her, enjoying the early spring, and decided to go into a small shop.
There she was.
She asked me if I remembered her. I said I did. We just stared into each others eyes for some time. It had to be a minute - which can be a long time under the right circumstances.
We talked for a bit, and she mentioned that she was hungry. I asked her what she was in the mood for, and she said spring rolls. I went to the Chinese joint down the street and came back with lunch. We went to the back of her shop, ate, and talked for an hour. I told her that I am married. She said "I guess it is too late now" and I replied "It is never too late" to which she replied "No?" She told me that she has a boyfriend, but has never found anyone good enough to settle down with.
We went outside and drew flowers on the sidewalk with chalk and talked more.
We exchanged Facebook information and both went about our day.
We have talked a couple times since, but nothing substantial. I have made sure to not message her all the time like I want to. We are going to meet up next time I go to her town, which is nearby, soon.
I am married and I love my wife. We have not been doing well together for some time and have talked about divorce.
I truly love my wife, but I cannot just throw the opportunity to be with this girl away. She is gorgeous and our ideals are so close.
I do not know if she likes me as more than a friend or really what to do from here.
Can someone offer me some sage advice?
I am just going to get into the heart of this. I met this girl one summer several years ago. We walked around town, got iced cream, talked, and had a lovely day. I was not forward with her about how I felt only out of fear of rejection. We went our separate ways and I have not seen her since.
I am a different person in many ways now. Especially regarding approaching women.
This week, I was walking around the town where I met her, enjoying the early spring, and decided to go into a small shop.
There she was.
She asked me if I remembered her. I said I did. We just stared into each others eyes for some time. It had to be a minute - which can be a long time under the right circumstances.
We talked for a bit, and she mentioned that she was hungry. I asked her what she was in the mood for, and she said spring rolls. I went to the Chinese joint down the street and came back with lunch. We went to the back of her shop, ate, and talked for an hour. I told her that I am married. She said "I guess it is too late now" and I replied "It is never too late" to which she replied "No?" She told me that she has a boyfriend, but has never found anyone good enough to settle down with.
We went outside and drew flowers on the sidewalk with chalk and talked more.
We exchanged Facebook information and both went about our day.
We have talked a couple times since, but nothing substantial. I have made sure to not message her all the time like I want to. We are going to meet up next time I go to her town, which is nearby, soon.
I am married and I love my wife. We have not been doing well together for some time and have talked about divorce.
I truly love my wife, but I cannot just throw the opportunity to be with this girl away. She is gorgeous and our ideals are so close.
I do not know if she likes me as more than a friend or really what to do from here.
Can someone offer me some sage advice?