"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nexting too fast?

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Wondering if this site advocates ‘nexting’ too fast. It’s almost like anything the girl does that doesn’t worship the man, ‘next’, ‘next’, ‘next’. Can you live life like that and eliminate all risk with any girl?

Instead of nexting all the time, why don’t men respond accordingly and keep going out with her? The natural advice is to ‘spin plates.’ Are there that many single, available, young, good looking girls in their 20s with little baggage wanting to get into a committed LTR relationship? Heck, our Prince asked a 36+ year old DIVORCED woman who has stripped into her underwear on national tv to be his WIFE, and the Queen is jumping up and down that he found someone and is getting married and have kids.

But sosuave knows better. They would say ‘don’t commit to Megan, she is too old and divorced, spin plates.’

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheGambino

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I delete Numbers... Sometimes I regret that but Hey if she had Some interest she would reach out Anyway so yeah delete the number after 2 strikes or When she lost interest.
 

devilkingx2

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Wondering if this site advocates ‘nexting’ too fast. It’s almost like anything the girl does that doesn’t worship the man, ‘next’, ‘next’, ‘next’. Can you live life like that and eliminate all risk with any girl?
if you've done something 10 times before and it has never worked why would you do it an 11th time?

most time when someone says next it's because they've never seen a better response to that situation so they're warning you not to waste time on something that never works out
 

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if you've done something 10 times before and it has never worked why would you do it an 11th time?

most time when someone says next it's because they've never seen a better response to that situation so they're warning you not to waste time on something that never works out
Walking away is the best option, for your OWN sake and the chance that her interest level Will go up.
 

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If you keep going out with her after she disrespects you, you’re lowering your self worth as a man. It isn’t worth it just to get your d1ck wet once in a while.

If Prince Harry gets divorced in three years after he cheats on that old woman, you’ll be eating your words.

Like @TheGambino I delete numbers. Why keep those women on your radar if they don’t live up to your standards?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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doctor1996

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Wondering if this site advocates ‘nexting’ too fast. It’s almost like anything the girl does that doesn’t worship the man, ‘next’, ‘next’, ‘next’. Can you live life like that and eliminate all risk with any girl?

Instead of nexting all the time, why don’t men respond accordingly and keep going out with her? The natural advice is to ‘spin plates.’ Are there that many single, available, young, good looking girls in their 20s with little baggage wanting to get into a committed LTR relationship? Heck, our Prince asked a 36+ year old DIVORCED woman who has stripped into her underwear on national tv to be his WIFE, and the Queen is jumping up and down that he found someone and is getting married and have kids.

But sosuave knows better. They would say ‘don’t commit to Megan, she is too old and divorced, spin plates.’

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I next fast, and I delete numbers. I think about it, yes I could have slept with a few, but I don't want them. At first I did, but as I thought about it, I thought otherwise
 
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