"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nexting too fast?

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Wondering if this site advocates ‘nexting’ too fast. It’s almost like anything the girl does that doesn’t worship the man, ‘next’, ‘next’, ‘next’. Can you live life like that and eliminate all risk with any girl?

Instead of nexting all the time, why don’t men respond accordingly and keep going out with her? The natural advice is to ‘spin plates.’ Are there that many single, available, young, good looking girls in their 20s with little baggage wanting to get into a committed LTR relationship? Heck, our Prince asked a 36+ year old DIVORCED woman who has stripped into her underwear on national tv to be his WIFE, and the Queen is jumping up and down that he found someone and is getting married and have kids.

But sosuave knows better. They would say ‘don’t commit to Megan, she is too old and divorced, spin plates.’

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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TheGambino

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I delete Numbers... Sometimes I regret that but Hey if she had Some interest she would reach out Anyway so yeah delete the number after 2 strikes or When she lost interest.
 

devilkingx2

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Wondering if this site advocates ‘nexting’ too fast. It’s almost like anything the girl does that doesn’t worship the man, ‘next’, ‘next’, ‘next’. Can you live life like that and eliminate all risk with any girl?
if you've done something 10 times before and it has never worked why would you do it an 11th time?

most time when someone says next it's because they've never seen a better response to that situation so they're warning you not to waste time on something that never works out
 

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if you've done something 10 times before and it has never worked why would you do it an 11th time?

most time when someone says next it's because they've never seen a better response to that situation so they're warning you not to waste time on something that never works out
Walking away is the best option, for your OWN sake and the chance that her interest level Will go up.
 

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If you keep going out with her after she disrespects you, you’re lowering your self worth as a man. It isn’t worth it just to get your d1ck wet once in a while.

If Prince Harry gets divorced in three years after he cheats on that old woman, you’ll be eating your words.

Like @TheGambino I delete numbers. Why keep those women on your radar if they don’t live up to your standards?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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doctor1996

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Wondering if this site advocates ‘nexting’ too fast. It’s almost like anything the girl does that doesn’t worship the man, ‘next’, ‘next’, ‘next’. Can you live life like that and eliminate all risk with any girl?

Instead of nexting all the time, why don’t men respond accordingly and keep going out with her? The natural advice is to ‘spin plates.’ Are there that many single, available, young, good looking girls in their 20s with little baggage wanting to get into a committed LTR relationship? Heck, our Prince asked a 36+ year old DIVORCED woman who has stripped into her underwear on national tv to be his WIFE, and the Queen is jumping up and down that he found someone and is getting married and have kids.

But sosuave knows better. They would say ‘don’t commit to Megan, she is too old and divorced, spin plates.’

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I next fast, and I delete numbers. I think about it, yes I could have slept with a few, but I don't want them. At first I did, but as I thought about it, I thought otherwise
 
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