"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Nexting" all forms of prostitution. Curious about YOUR story!

NeverFear

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One of the things i liked about dumping the placating AFC model was felt immediately in my wallet.

Dont get me wrong. I still spend money on women. But VERY little!!!

Gone are the flowers, candies, expensive dates, etc. Hello are coffee dates, walks in parks, and dinners at HER house!! lol

Shedding the preconceptions and expectations of society is not easy. Even women THEMSELVES will exert all sorts of subtle pressures to get expensive evenings out with not too subtle "manhood" questionings.

You hear things like "dont you want to eat somewhere good?"

"Ive always wanted to see such and such play".

I just smile and do my thing. I am resolute. I do not spend money on women unless they prove themselves flexible givers themselves. IN that case, my wordly goods are their wordly goods.

Im interested in other fellas experiences in shedding the various forms of feminist prostitution from their lifes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lebRambo

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seduction at its purest is completely anti-material. unfortunately for us, the socio-political system we know as capitalism, and the high priests, the reigning oligarchs of this system will not let us forget that we are to be, first and foremost, consumers. Fvck that! Fvck shopping, fvck advertising, fvck fast food, fvck chain stores, fvck sweatshop labour and fvck product placement. This is why being in a mall is enough to make my skin crawl. Watching idiots fritter their money away on the truly insignificant: fashionable consumption. Salvation through maximum expenditure.

Anyway, back on topic: I hardly spend anything on girls anymore, unless I WANT TO. When I say that, i don't mean I want to as in 'i want her to know how much I like her so i'll buy her this little trinket to make up for my woeful seduction skills', I mean i want to as in me, myself, not the man-wh0re but me, want to do this.
 
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