"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Nexting" all forms of prostitution. Curious about YOUR story!

NeverFear

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One of the things i liked about dumping the placating AFC model was felt immediately in my wallet.

Dont get me wrong. I still spend money on women. But VERY little!!!

Gone are the flowers, candies, expensive dates, etc. Hello are coffee dates, walks in parks, and dinners at HER house!! lol

Shedding the preconceptions and expectations of society is not easy. Even women THEMSELVES will exert all sorts of subtle pressures to get expensive evenings out with not too subtle "manhood" questionings.

You hear things like "dont you want to eat somewhere good?"

"Ive always wanted to see such and such play".

I just smile and do my thing. I am resolute. I do not spend money on women unless they prove themselves flexible givers themselves. IN that case, my wordly goods are their wordly goods.

Im interested in other fellas experiences in shedding the various forms of feminist prostitution from their lifes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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seduction at its purest is completely anti-material. unfortunately for us, the socio-political system we know as capitalism, and the high priests, the reigning oligarchs of this system will not let us forget that we are to be, first and foremost, consumers. Fvck that! Fvck shopping, fvck advertising, fvck fast food, fvck chain stores, fvck sweatshop labour and fvck product placement. This is why being in a mall is enough to make my skin crawl. Watching idiots fritter their money away on the truly insignificant: fashionable consumption. Salvation through maximum expenditure.

Anyway, back on topic: I hardly spend anything on girls anymore, unless I WANT TO. When I say that, i don't mean I want to as in 'i want her to know how much I like her so i'll buy her this little trinket to make up for my woeful seduction skills', I mean i want to as in me, myself, not the man-wh0re but me, want to do this.
 
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