“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's this girl I've been chatting online for a couple of days. Asked for her phone number but she refused. I said BYE. She sent me a message and couldn't believe I would let her go just like that (we had a lot of fun). I said, if you were interested you would have given me the number. She said "interested in what? :)". I said, BYE. Once again she sent me a message telling me that she had a great time with me but her girlfriend told her some scary stuff about meeting people online. (an excuse?) :rolleyes: OK, so I thought we'll chat more and get to know each other and we'll see then.

I added her to my MSN. She went away for a week. As for MSN, I guess she might have blocked me or something cos she was never online when she got back. Well, I asked last time for her ICQ and she ignored me for more than a week.

Yesterday, I send her a "ping" message just to see if she'll react. Ignore.

Fine I send her a message. "I thought you were different but you're the same as all these *****es here. Ignoring me = no respect for me = GAME OVER. Besides, I don't need to hear your BS excuses any longer. Take care."

NEXT!

I realized I really don't need this BS in my life. I don't and won't tolerate flaking out on me! I feel better and way more powerful now, knowing that I have no problems nexting a girl even if I liked her a lot.

What do you think? Was the situation handled properly?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Umm.

Two ways you could have handled it:

#1) Continued with the fun that you guys have. Build up some more rapport and then hint at taking it to the next level. If she refuses and thats all you want from her then yes ...tell her it was fun but if it aint going anywhere your out of here. Don't answer her back ...do what you said - YOUR OUT OF HERE.

#2) Just next her. You didn't need to send that last message man infact it made you come off as a little desperate.

Just forget about her. Play the game ...and win.

Laters boss :)
 
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#1 was my initial plan, that's why I asked for her ICQ so we can IM in a real time, not PM.

As for my last message, consider the fact that I did wait more than a week before trying to contact her again. I really hate when they disrespect me like that. And as we won't see each other EVER I wanted her to know that I won't let anyone treat me that way.

I guess I want too much if I want a woman to tell me "I ain't interested, bye" :p

Game on, boss :cool:
 
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Fine I send her a message. "I thought you were different but you're the same as all these *****es here. Ignoring me = no respect for me = GAME OVER. Besides, I don't need to hear your BS excuses any longer. Take care."

What do you think? Was the situation handled properly?
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Only if you wanted to sound like a 3 year old throwing all of their toys out of the pram. Never let it show that she got to you. As far as she's concerned she should have gone away with the feeling that she didn't even ripple the pond.
 
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Please tell me your a troll?

If you're for real, get a big bucket, big enough for your head to fit in. Fill the bucket with beer. Put your head in the bucket and try and breath through your nose as normal. Keep doing this for 4 minutes.
Rinse and Repeat. 3 times.

Whats the point of this?
I'm hoping you'll damage you're memory, and forget everything you think you know about picking up.

You Sir, are in such bad shape. You need to start all over again in your learning.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well, another lesson learned ;-)

It's just that I have this sick urge to let her know she ****ed up :cheer:

OK, so you are saying that once I get "there", I won't care and next here right away?
 
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Originally posted by arlanda
Well, another lesson learned ;-)

It's just that I have this sick urge to let her know she ****ed up :cheer:

OK, so you are saying that once I get "there", I won't care and next here right away?
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You didn't next her. You didn't do ANYTHING right.

You were rejected by her. You could have left with some dignity, but hell, you gave that to her aswell.

This might come off as odd. But try meeting a girl in REAL life.

a) You'll learn more.
b) Its more fun.
c) You might get laid.
 
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