"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey all, went out with a cool hot shy chick about 9 days ago. She def liked me from her body language etc. We had a good time. Agreed to hangout again when I returned from trip back home for thanksgiving. SO I had not talked to her or made an attempt to call her for 9 days since I was out of town. I did not promise to call her either. Called her on monday and told her we shoudl get together again and have not heard from her. Well, I have not heard from her yet and I was wondering if she thought I was playing a game by not calling her for so long. Could she be playing it back or does she think I am a game player. and doesnt want to play cause shes the shy type? Anyways, I think I will call her in a week and tell her somthing along the lines of:

girlie, , this is majumbo. I dont know why you havent returned my call. Anyways, I thought we had a great time when we last hung out. I thought we'd get together again. If you've reconsidered things, that's your call although I think you're making a big mistake. I'm one of the good guys. Its your loss. Take care. (hangup)

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by majumbo
I dont know why you havent returned my call.

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NOOOOOO! Even I thought you should her call her never say that. It makes you sound whiny and desperate and no one wants someone who's whiny and desperate.

Also, if I were you, I wouldn't call back. You already called, the ball's in her court. If she's interested, she'll call. The shyness excuse doesn't work here because you already called so she'd only be calling back, which even shy people don't mind.

Forget about her for now. If she calls back, good, as long as you don't jump all over her as soon as she does then you're fine. If she never calls back, too bad for her. Forget her for good.
 
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