"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hey all, went out with a cool hot shy chick about 9 days ago. She def liked me from her body language etc. We had a good time. Agreed to hangout again when I returned from trip back home for thanksgiving. SO I had not talked to her or made an attempt to call her for 9 days since I was out of town. I did not promise to call her either. Called her on monday and told her we shoudl get together again and have not heard from her. Well, I have not heard from her yet and I was wondering if she thought I was playing a game by not calling her for so long. Could she be playing it back or does she think I am a game player. and doesnt want to play cause shes the shy type? Anyways, I think I will call her in a week and tell her somthing along the lines of:

girlie, , this is majumbo. I dont know why you havent returned my call. Anyways, I thought we had a great time when we last hung out. I thought we'd get together again. If you've reconsidered things, that's your call although I think you're making a big mistake. I'm one of the good guys. Its your loss. Take care. (hangup)

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Originally posted by majumbo
I dont know why you havent returned my call.

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NOOOOOO! Even I thought you should her call her never say that. It makes you sound whiny and desperate and no one wants someone who's whiny and desperate.

Also, if I were you, I wouldn't call back. You already called, the ball's in her court. If she's interested, she'll call. The shyness excuse doesn't work here because you already called so she'd only be calling back, which even shy people don't mind.

Forget about her for now. If she calls back, good, as long as you don't jump all over her as soon as she does then you're fine. If she never calls back, too bad for her. Forget her for good.
 
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