"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nexted This Chick In Her Face!

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alright so i've been going for this chick and we've hung out one time and it went well. but every time we set something up shed always call and cancel it. it pissed me off but shes really hot and i really wanted to tap it so i just let her do it. but tonight was the last time. we were gonna go to a kickback tonight but she texts me at the last minute and says it's off. so i'm like thats gay what are you doing tonight. she like i dont know. and im like you want to go to a bonfire. then she replies

her: "um i think im going to my boyfriends house tonight but ill ask him if he wants to go".
me: wtf ur kidding right?
her: kidding about what
me: u think im that stupid
her: wtf ru talking about

this is the first ive ever heard of a boyfriend. so i thought she was joking. so i call her up and say

me: since when did you have a boyfriend
her: since last week
me: are you serious why didnt u tell me
her: i told your friend to tell you
me: he never told me and you shouldve just told me to my face
her: well i thought you knew
me: bull ****. why would i want to hang out with you if we were just gonna be friends? i'm sick of you playing little games.
her: wat ru talking about. we never really planned anything.
me: right... i guess your too unreliable to remember ****. i'm over it. have fun with your boyfriend. bye.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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American_Psycho

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Well, the truth is she nexted you when she got a boyfriend, but well played regardless.
 

KontrollerX

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Ugh I hate chicks like that but its unfortunately the road often travelled on the path to find a quality woman.
 

KarmaSutra

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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
so i'm like thats gay what are you doing tonight. she like i dont know. and im like you want to go to a bonfire.
Like maybe you could like tell her like you really like don't like wanna like be like girlfriends anymore.
 

nonchalant

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attention ***** biatch.

you should have ejected a long time ago, after the first flake.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Coming straight out and pointing the finger at her isn't the way to go. Instead of being so vocal about her flaking and trying to show her you "get it" you should have just cut your losses and nexted her, quietly. The way you did it, she knows she got to you. She wins.

If you just walk away without showing a hint of it bothering you, you get to maintain your dignity.

It's a very immature way of handling the situation. (though it is incredibly tempting....especially when you're learning how to play this game... You want to just shout it out loud to every chick who tries to play you, that you see through her and that she's full of sh!t. Itr gives you some satisfaction, but she'll see you as a boy throwing a tantrum, rather then a man who can handle it)

From now on, just don't do that.
 

Potbelly

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yea ithinkyou shuld played it cool. but she'll probably come back and wanna be friends. turn her ass down unless she wants to eat sum d1ck or take it up the cvnt
 

Lovesorrow

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
Coming straight out and pointing the finger at her isn't the way to go. Instead of being so vocal about her flaking and trying to show her you "get it" you should have just cut your losses and nexted her, quietly. The way you did it, she knows she got to you. She wins.

If you just walk away without showing a hint of it bothering you, you get to maintain your dignity.

It's a very immature way of handling the situation. (though it is incredibly tempting....especially when you're learning how to play this game... You want to just shout it out loud to every chick who tries to play you, that you see through her and that she's full of sh!t. Itr gives you some satisfaction, but she'll see you as a boy throwing a tantrum, rather then a man who can handle it)

From now on, just don't do that.
Yeah. Bad a.s.s is correct. At the beginning we want to be rude and tell women to fu.ck off when they act like that but we have to resist this temptation. Otherwise, that is gonna show she had power over you.

Do as Bad Canadian said.
 
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