"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJ Axton

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Ok, in a bit of a dilemma. There's this really hot girl in my class who is totally into me. We heavy flirted before school, talked dirty over msn etc., you no the usual stuff lol. But the thing is every time I've actually made plans to meet her out of school, she says yes at first (every time) and we make plans (every time) but then she cancels on me like a couple of days before (EVERY TIME!). She keeps doing this.

Now we have our prom coming up, so I figure I have two choices. Either ask her to that, which will give me a chance to get her alone and show her what she keeps missing out on. Or I should just next her.

It's as simple as that. Advice?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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IceCream

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Let's see... You asked her a good amount of times to a date and she blew you off every time, and now you want to go to PROM with her?

Your title says it all bro, you dont need to ask us.
 

Rata Blanca

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Next her dude, if she canceled all of your plans what makes you think prom will be different?
 

Docs

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Tell her she's your #3 choice to the prom. Naturally, that means find two replacements and let the jealously roll...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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