"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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DJ Axton

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Ok, in a bit of a dilemma. There's this really hot girl in my class who is totally into me. We heavy flirted before school, talked dirty over msn etc., you no the usual stuff lol. But the thing is every time I've actually made plans to meet her out of school, she says yes at first (every time) and we make plans (every time) but then she cancels on me like a couple of days before (EVERY TIME!). She keeps doing this.

Now we have our prom coming up, so I figure I have two choices. Either ask her to that, which will give me a chance to get her alone and show her what she keeps missing out on. Or I should just next her.

It's as simple as that. Advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Let's see... You asked her a good amount of times to a date and she blew you off every time, and now you want to go to PROM with her?

Your title says it all bro, you dont need to ask us.
 
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Next her dude, if she canceled all of your plans what makes you think prom will be different?
 
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Tell her she's your #3 choice to the prom. Naturally, that means find two replacements and let the jealously roll...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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